Locking this thread as some of the comments in here are absolutely rancid. No, femmes to not need to risk their safety and accommodate violent misogynists that only want to control and abuse them. It's the responsibility of men to educate themselves and learn the art of truly loving.

A LOT of people in this thread need to join the bell hooks book club on The Will to Change and actually engage with some theory instead of telling women who feel unsafe around incels that they're bigots ackshully for not accepting these poor lonely violent smol beans who are just soooooo oppressed. This shit is why minorities do not feel safe on this site. Yall need to do better.

I feel this is mostly a criticism of "right-wing anti-inceldom", I hope no one farther left of an average Reddit user has to read this. I think not reproducing toxic masculinity should be obvious?

Left-wing anti-inceldom should still be practiced ofc

Listen man i gotta hate somethin in order to live

This is a powerful article. Thank you for bringing it to my attention. The author is correct. A lot of women put up with stuff they shouldn't, but feel constrained by societal expectations, resources, ability, and just plain brainwashing. I had a conversation about it with one of my male neighbors, recently.