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Over the past few months I've been making mutual aid posts due to my dire financial situation, in which I ask for food vouchers and provide an email address for them to be sent to. During this time I've suddenly been getting an absolutely ridiculous amount of porn junk mail - things like "Hey baby, I saw your online profile, you look like the man for me....etc" I'm not a man and don't have a dating profile. I get nearly 100 of these a day now. I've also been getting other junk mail, mainly shopping stuff, wanting me to buy things. I never used to get this. I really have to conclude that someone here or on lemmy used my email address to sign me up for this. It's just the latest in a line of trolling since I started asking for help.

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[–] CarbonScored@hexbear.net 16 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Sorry you're having to deal with that, I totally get it's annoying.

Not saying it definitely isn't deliberate, but I wouldn't necessarily jump to this being malicious. There are still plenty bots out there that will crawl webpages and pick up email addresses to add to spam lists. They'll undoubtedly crawl places like this, so if you're putting your email in plain format in your posts, that's fairly likely to happen. Plus obviously anywhere you're signed up to can leak your email any time.

I've had previous email addresses get the kind of spam you describe, and it only takes a single instance of it being leaked or in the wrong database to get spam like that in the hundreds of emails per day.

[–] DisabledAceSocialist@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Thanks for the info. I guess it could be a bot then. I just assumed someone might have done it because since I started here I've had a few trolls. Most people have been absolutely lovely, and I wouldn't have managed without the help and emotional support I've received here but I've had a few incidents, from minor ones such as people promising help here and not following through, to 2 people at lemmygrad trolling me relentlessly (they were dealt with by the mods). A minority of people even on these sites seem to hate people who ask for help so I thought one of them might have done it.

[–] CarbonScored@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

The existence of anyone here or Grad being a total fuck like that is upsetting, but I'm glad they got dealt with. Really glad to hear you've got help and support Care-Comrade

As I say, can't say you're wrong with any certainty. No way to be sure where spammers sourced their email, just wanted to float web crawlers as a definite (albeit, also annoying) possibility.