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I’m half Russian American on my father’s side, a quarter Israeli and some Egyptian on my mom’s side

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[–] darklamer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That's a lot of languages! Which ones of them are you comfortable speaking?

[–] GB19@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I only know some Arabic, Russian, and English, so I’m usually comfortable with just Russian and English. As someone who used to be transfem, I had to get used to changing the way I said things in Russian and Arabic now that I’m a man.

[–] GB19@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

For example, if I was an alcoholic as a woman, in Russian I’d be алкоголичка, but as a man, I’d be алкоголик. If I’m tired now, I’d be устал, but as a woman, I’d have been устала.

In Arabic (Standard Arabic), if you want to ask a woman her name formally, you ask “ ما اسمك؟” (ma ismuki), but you say ma ismuka to a man.

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Neat! The only English word I can think of like that is "his blond" and "her blonde" pubes

[–] GB19@lemm.ee 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

In actual Egyptian Arabic, you’d say, اسْمَك إِيْه؟ (ismak eh) to a man. It’s written the same when said to a woman, but it’s ismik eh.

In Levantine Arabic (I guess i’d be of Levantine descent), you’d say (casually) شو اسمك؟ (shu ismak/shu ismik to a woman)

[–] GB19@lemm.ee 2 points 2 days ago

Adjectives also change in Arabic. In Levantine Arabic, you’d say “ هو ذكي” (huwwe zaki) meaning “he is smart”, but for a woman, you’d say “ هي ذكية” (hiyye zakiyye)

[–] darklamer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Well, even though English grammar has dropped gender from pretty much everything save pronouns these days, there are still quite a lot of gendered nouns from times past left in the language, compare for example "I'm a father" vs. "I'm a mother" (vs. "I'm a parent"), or "I'm an actor" vs. "I'm an actress". There are also some adjectives left that aren't strictly gendered per se, but still tend to have gendered usage, compare for example "I'm handsome" vs. "I'm pretty".

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Touche!! Thanks for that

[–] OldManBOMBIN@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] GB19@lemm.ee 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

They are quite interesting. We mainly speak English there as it’s a common language and everyone speaks it. I barely know any Hebrew despite my mom being from Israel.

[–] Flamangoman@leminal.space 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What do you make of people with very little cultural history? Do you look down on them with pity or scorn???

[–] GB19@lemm.ee 1 points 2 days ago

I honestly don’t care, i think everyone’s history is interesting

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Which holidays do you like to celebrate?

[–] GB19@lemm.ee 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Christmas, Easter, Passover normally :)

(It’s odd because we kinda celebrate Chanukah and Christmas)

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Sounds amazing. A lot of opportunities to spend time with loved ones ❤️

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

How did your parents meet?

[–] GB19@lemm.ee 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My dad came to the U.S. with his family at a young age, as did my mom. They actually went to school together but didn’t really talk or pursue each other until MUCH later.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Were they in the same grade?

[–] GB19@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] GB19@lemm.ee 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

да! (I’d say so. Despite Russian being my first language, I’m better at English. I’m also learning Arabic)

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 2 days ago

How many places have you lived in?

[–] NoneOfUrBusiness@fedia.io 0 points 1 week ago

What's the story behind your mom's heritage? Do you have an Egyptian Jewish grandparent?