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[–] Deflated0ne@lemmy.world 36 points 9 months ago (2 children)

It's almost like we spent millions of years evolving as social communal animals. Almost like we evolved ...wait for it...

...

...

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Empathy. /gasp

[–] Akasazh@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago

We're not very good at it. Lots of ways our empathy systems can be hacked.

Take the Kuleshov effect where a broodily staring man is edited with a secondary image which completely changes most people's reading of the internal feeling of the person.

It's not a perfect system.

[–] LoreSoong@startrek.website 24 points 9 months ago (1 children)

This actually works, whenever I scold at people for thinking mean thoughts at me. They ALWAYS respond agressively. Didnt know there was a word for it, Thanks!

[–] Slovene@feddit.nl 6 points 9 months ago (1 children)
[–] LoreSoong@startrek.website 5 points 9 months ago

Now I have a super power AND a kick ass theme song. Thanks!

[–] TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world 21 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

"I'm an empath" a.k.a. I'm so stupid that I think reading body language requires supernatural powers

[–] krunklom@lemmy.zip 3 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

Or you have bpd.

Obviously not "you" as in the commenter I'm responding to

[–] TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

As far as I've been told, that's an extension of their inability to regulate emotions. They aren't more in tune with other's emotions, but rather, their emotional responses to other's emotions is stronger than the average person.

People with bpd aren't sensing other people's emotions more, they are reacting to it more due to their dysregulation.

[–] krunklom@lemmy.zip 3 points 8 months ago

If what they're reacting to is even real in the first place.

[–] QueenHawlSera@sh.itjust.works 16 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I sort of have this... but its not supernatural.

It's just my autistic quirk of adopting personality traits of people around me... I've heard it called Chameleoning

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 20 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I got my super power from an abusive childhood 😎

[–] gaybriel_fr_br@jlai.lu 7 points 9 months ago

Join the club.

[–] magic_lobster_party@fedia.io 14 points 9 months ago

The problem with chameleoning is that it sometimes takes a while to calibrate when meeting a stranger for the first time, so you’re just confused. It can also be overwhelming when meeting with multiple strangers at the same time.

[–] highlow@lemmy.world 13 points 8 months ago (1 children)

That sounds less like an empath and more like a cop. They know everything you're thinking within 5 seconds

[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 8 points 8 months ago

And are NEVER wrong once their decision is made. No mistakes ever.

/s

[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 10 points 8 months ago

Until you spend an entire life consciously having to process emotions and you're right more often than not.

[–] AeonFelis@lemmy.world 7 points 8 months ago

As an empath, I emph that you are feeling... annoyed with me.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 points 8 months ago

Until you look at the news and get depressed af then misuse your medications trying to keep the sadness under control

As someone with extremely u!usual emotional reactions: i love this shit. It's so cool and good.

And if you argue agaibst it, for any other model of compassion, you're just a monster.

[–] Angelusz@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Hey now, nobody is perfect.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)
[–] halfeatenpotato@sh.itjust.works 2 points 8 months ago

Did you just have a stroke?

Nice stroke, Pam.