I'm trying my best to remember that all those things that somebody definitely already posted when I was on Reddit might be my job to post here. It's refreshing!
I know, it's something I have to keep reminding myself of too. If I ever find myself thinking 'man, this content feels stale,' that's also my fault and something I can fix
I have a pic that hit the top of r/all and was thinking about posting it in pics or aww, because it's cute and funny and I want it to live freely, but I'm afraid of coming off as karma farming. :|
Lemmy doesn't track overall karma. I think you're good. Bring on the cute and funny!
I'm having trouble getting my head around the idea that people here actually want me to post and comment here. A lot of places online, I feel like my comments or posts are too long, or no one cares, or the space is just so saturated with content that I have nothing of value to add.
Probably that's at least partly my own insecurities, of course, but it's still mind-boggling to be told that not only can I contribute as much as I like, people want me to do it. And I'm a little scared that I will still manage to annoy people, lol, I have just been yelling at myself for so long.
I agree with you man, I'm the same.
I agree with you man, I'm the same.
I agree with you man, I'm the same.
You’re not the only one! That’s partly why I made that post- on Reddit I would make 1-2 posts a year and only got real traction with 1 or 2 ever. I was always too late for my comments to matter and I usually just browsed and voted.
Here, the community is smaller so each post and comment matters more, and for the most part I’ve found it a lot more welcoming. I realized that engaging more proactively was a lot more fun than on Reddit, and I thought that others would probably be thinking the same way so maybe this post would help break down that passive habit so many of us have from Reddit.
It's nice to know I'm not the only one. <3 And yes, this post is helping. Every time I scroll by, it seems a little less weird. I've been trying to think back to the time ~20 years ago when I felt more confident and engaged. There were spaces where I actually was trying to keep the ball rolling, and I think the same principles will apply. But trying to put myself back in that headspace is not easy, and there are some parts of that time in my life that Idon't want to recreate, lol. But I think it's worth making the effort, if only to see how it goes.
I agree with you man, I'm the same.
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I volunteer to find a bunch of hentai porn and dump it all over the place.
I can join, but sadly there's few communities (or even none) to post them. We need r/hentai and r/wholesomehentai equivalents :<
I can join, but sadly there's few communities (or even none) to post them
I can join, but sadly there's few communities (or even none) to post them. We need r/hentai and r/wholesomehentai equivalents :<
I can join, but sadly there's few communities (or even none) to post them