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when I wear pads, the adhesive usually balls up, ends up on the panties which then get transferred to my thighs and hands, and then it makes a mess everywhere - it gets smeared on countertops, onto toilet seats, etc. and is a pain to clean up ...

any suggestions on how to avoid the adhesive balling up or this problem in general? it seems to be a problem with any brand I use, they all have adhesives to keep the pad in place in the panties 🤷‍♀️

made this post NSFW just in case anyone is squeamish about talk of pads and so on 😅

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here's a photo of what I'm talking about:

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[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 10 points 1 month ago (2 children)

How do you feel about reusable pads? They have those little clippy studs instead

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

omg, brilliant - I'm not sure I realized there were reusable pads, but that would definitely get rid of the adhesive problem!

the only tradeoff is they are more expensive and I tend to change my pad every time I pee, so I would go through a lot of pads ... as long as I have enough that I can wash and get through a day it should be fine

thank you so much for this 🫶

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Could also try period underpants? They're quite remarkable

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I have a single pair I wear, I think the brand is "saalt"? They're nice, but I treat them more like an emergency backup under a pad for heavier ... I think it would probably be easier to wash and cycle through reusable pads than period underpants, though if I had unlimited money maybe period underpants would be more convenient overall - another great suggestion, thank you!

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Yeah i'm an Old Fart, so i treated them as tampon / cup backup or for the random last dregs. Period products have come a looong way!

What country are you in? In Australia they even get sold in supermarkets now

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago

I'm in the U.S., and funnily enough, I bought the one pair of period panties I own in a Whole Foods 🤭

[–] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Came here to recommend this. Bonus is not having to go to the store. 👍

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago

I'm converted, ordered some GladRags last night!

[–] Polkira@piefed.ca 6 points 1 month ago

No suggestions on the adhesive issues, but I recently bought period underwear to try out instead of the disposable pads. I can't give a review yet because I haven't had a chance to actually use them but might be worth looking into! I bought some from Costco but I just grabbed another pair from the grocery store because they were in boy shorts style and I find that more comfortable. Brand that I just bought is Revolcares, Costco one that I bought was Knix.

I usually wear cotton underwear with Kotex pads, biggest issue I've had is sometimes the adhesive pulls on the gusset seam depending on the underwear. I haven't experienced the adhesive balling like that.

[–] cactusfangs@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I notice this sometimes on my underwear that is made from synthetic materials. I have more a problem with bits of the pad literally not coming off because it’s so stuck. But I don’t have any issues on my 100% cotton undies.

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago

hm, all the underwear I've been wearing is 100% cotton undies, and it's less like the pad getting stuck or not coming off, and more like the adhesive coming off the pad and then getting on the undies

but good to know anyway - thanks for sharing your experience!

I tend to dislike the texture of the synthetic fibers, so I tend to wear cotton as much as possible (it's a bit pricey, but I like to get my underwear from Pact).

[–] Chromebby@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Yes I’ve noticed a sticky adhesive transfer to my panties before. While it doesn’t happen often, it seems to happen to certain panties I have that are made of a synthetic fabric blend. I’ve never had it happen while wearing cotton.