sunbrrnslapper

joined 3 years ago

I used to pull the battery out and shake it. Did I need to? No. Was it cathartic? Absolutely.

And it's not even genetically dominant! ๐Ÿ˜‰

No, it is a symptom or piece of it.

Historically, women have been thought of as property of and existing for men. That manifests itself all sorts of ways, including but not limited to huge pressure to look and act in a way that projects submission or weakness (and conversely huge pressure to find weakness attractive). The hair is just one example. So, is it truly a preference or is it more of a social norm?

[โ€“] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I thought it was just me. Glad to know I'm not alone.

It isn't supposed to look like that?

[โ€“] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago (6 children)

Totally. I only dated tall wealthy men with a full head of hair for the same reason. ๐Ÿ˜‰

[โ€“] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 23 points 2 days ago (12 children)

They be fair, the whole hair and woman thing is part of thelarger systemic injustice that women face. It's one of those things where societal norm and personal preference blur together. It's a tough one, for sure.

That said, I'm with you on the whole we've gone too far limiting peoples preferences and choices. It's our differences and unique qualities and makes the world interesting (and possibly better).

I know this doesn't happen often in practice, but I absolutely cover my teams time off (for what ever reason). Our clients don't pay us enough to have extra staff standing around when everyone is healthy, so I'm the coverage plan. ๐Ÿ˜•

I used to think the villain in Captain Planet was hyperbolic. I now know they were preparing us for the Trump administration.

I think those are better examples lumber company towns. These days Snoqualmie and North Bend are more tech centric (read: tons of $$). If you ever need a drive, Seleck, WA is a fascinating old company "town".

[โ€“] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago (2 children)

The cafe is in North bend at least.

[โ€“] sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago (4 children)

I live out by where it was filmed - and by an old timber company town. There is a bit of truth to how weird and fucked up they were. Obviously the show dramatized the situation, but it captured the vibe.

 

Does it cost me $10 per run? Yes. Is it worth every penny? Absolutely.

 
 
 
 

Mods: I was unsure if a politics-related rant was ok. If not: sorry!

Over the last month and a little, we've watched the disruption and/or dismantling of key US government programs and agencies - fundamentally undermining the power of Congress and the balance of power in the federal government. We've also started to see the Executive Branch ignore court orders - undermining the Judicial Branch and further erroding the balance of power.

We are watching this happen while our Congressional leaders take no meaningful action. There is no plan to restore balance to the federal government, no call to action for citizens to take, no one steering the ship. Our leaders have failed us in a spectacular way.

How did we get here? Well... everyday Americans are falling behind - driven by low wages, high cost of living, and economic instability. And we are watching big business and the rich influence our leaders in ways that are actively harmful to individual Americans.

In November people were given the option between the status quo or dramatic change. And people voted for change - albeit bad change. Desperate people do desperate things.

But the vast majority of Americans don't want to get rid of democracy. They don't want to break the international order. They don't want someone who doesn't meet the requirements to become president to boss the actual president around.

This is, at its core, a nonpartisan issue. We want the government to work for us again: of the people, by the people, for the people.

On several occasions I've seen or heard people asking "what can we do?" In the absence of direction from our leaders, I thought I'd share specific things that I am asking my representatives to actively support. Maybe, if enough of us ask, we can create the pressure and momentum required to enact change:

Re-assert Congressional power Enact a law (or laws) that increase transparency, demand accountability, and strengthen checks and balances. Override a veto if necessary. Why: this reestablishes the balance of power intended by our founders.

Limit or eliminate political donations Limit maximum annual donations (to candidates, parties, PACs and Super PACs) to $2k/year per entity or person - or get rid of them all together. Why: this ensures that our leaders are influenced by their constituents and not the highest bidder.

Set Congressional term and age limits Limit years in Congressto no more than 20 years and no older that 75. Why: this creates an ongoing rotation of leaders rather than people clinging to power.

These things won't solve all of our problems, but will allow the American people to begin an actual dialogue without influence - from which we can tackle issues affecting the country.

Thank you for coming to my TED talk.

 

Mt Rainier from Seward Park

 
 
 
 
 

I am newly diagnosed with CD. Wanted to connect with others to see if you have any helpful tips or information for newbies. CD wasn't previously on my radar - getting tested was part of several tests ordered - so I know very little on how to navigate this.

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