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[–] tone212_@aussie.zone 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Two new people at my co-working space having a Teams meeting on speaker and playing videos out loud. Put up with it for 30 minutes. Then went over and asked them to please stop playing videos from their computer on speaker loudly as it's distracting to my work, and there are free meeting pods around if you need to make noise. No sorry, no speaking at all, just looked at me and each other like I was crazy for confronting them. Amazing how inconsiderate people can be.

They immediately packed up and moved someone else.

[–] SaneMartigan@aussie.zone 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

They immediately packed up and moved someone else.

A win. I cracked it at a family holding up the line for the tunnel walk on Sunday. They didn't have their QR codes up and traffic was backing up. Dad was trying to be all just give me a minute until I loudly encouraged him to step aside while he learned to use his phone. He gave me the dirtiest look but stepped aside.

[–] MeanElevator@aussie.zone 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

We need more shit like that called out publicly. I don't hesitate when some idiot needs to be confronted. Public humiliation is a powerful tool.

[–] tone212_@aussie.zone 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

The old me would have stayed quiet and put up with it, but not anymore.

I've also learned my lesson to call this behaviour out quickly. There's a group of people from a business (not here today) who have been members longer than me who are so loud, so disruptive, and essentially untouchable (management won't confront them after I complained). They also know they're bothering me when I'm here and give no shits. So as soon as there's a new disruptive group, I approach very quickly to teach some workplace etiquette they should already know.

[–] MeanElevator@aussie.zone 5 points 1 month ago

Wankers like that in the workplace feel so much worse. I expect more from adults, and yet...constant disappointment. Good on you for evolving :)

[–] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 8 points 1 month ago

I cracked the shits at a builder next door playing shit techno at full blast few days ago.

I like techno, but not that sort of techno, particularly when you're angle grinding rebar.

Haven't played it since lol.

I won that round.

[–] imoldgreeeg@aussie.zone 11 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Travelling again for work so another slightly dodgy breakfast but I got to hang out with this absolute legend

Title

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[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 10 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I bought a new body trimmer. I practiced on the man's back. It was all fun and games up until I accidently nicked the scrotum.

[–] Pilk@aussie.zone 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 5 points 1 month ago

I was doing so good too.

[–] Eagle@aussie.zone 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Scotums are very vascular, they bleed lots! Hopefully just superficial.

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah he's good now but I'm never allowed to do that again.

[–] Eagle@aussie.zone 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Until he does a worse job with diy....

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 5 points 1 month ago

Nah. It was a once in a lifetime experiment.

[–] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 8 points 1 month ago

I'm sorry. I shouldn't tell people he's got a hairy back.

[–] Force_majeure112@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I for one want to hear more about deputy CEOs nutsack

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It was like trying to shave 2 peaches in a net bag.

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

practiced on the man’s back.

accidently nicked the scrotum.

How damned high do that man's balls ride??

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 6 points 1 month ago

He obviously tossed them over his shoulder like a regimental soldier

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[–] RustyRaven@aussie.zone 8 points 1 month ago

I bought some cheap jeans from Kmart which were too wide in the legs, so have taken the legs in by a couple of inches and hemmed them to a sensible height. They are now presentable enough to wear for general stuff like gardening and dog walking, even if they are never going to be high fashion. It's good to have the sewing space useable, even if it does need a lot more sorting still - the table is covered with fabric that needs to be put away once I can figure out where.

[–] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

One of the teams in the building had a new guy join 2 weeks ago and clocked the team leader's bullshit with in a couple of days. Come in this morning and his work phone and keys are on his desk and my manager confirmed he'd resigned last night, can't wait to hear how the team leader spins this one. I'm guessing "he just couldn't handle it" as opposed to what we all know is the truth (the team leader is an asshole).

[–] Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

5 hours sleep in a row!!!!

Oh fuck yes!

[–] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 4 points 1 month ago

it's nice to know what it feels like to be rested 😊

[–] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

I'm up. Time to see the young seagoon's off on the rest of their trip overseas to see other fam.

I will miss them so much 😭

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[–] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm still buzzed/happy from the Young Seagoons visit. The bonds have never been stronger. πŸ˜ŠπŸ’–They are lovely people.

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[–] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 6 points 1 month ago (12 children)

very old MIL came over

she went on a rant about VicRoads. How dare they ask for all my medical details. my bad health doesn't mean I can't drive, and how dare they ask me to get retested.

"I'm a very good driver, better than "insert name of son" ( who drives her everywhere, ) I see all the things he doesn't. I see everything and anticipate."

She's 86 and can barely get in a car and she can't walk well.

She was so angry when I said maybe she shouldn't be driving.

I'm only concerned that someone else may get hurt.

Narcissism in old age manifests in new and interesting ways.

[–] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The absolute rage someone I knew flew into when his doctor reported him as no longer fit to drive. Never mind the fact that he blacked out while driving his car, fell asleep on a forklift and had lost a large chunk of his spatial awareness leading to scraping the shit out of his car, but "HoW dArE tHeY". Fucker is lucky he didn't hurt anyone. And yet still thought it was an excellent choice to not take his medication.

Some people would rather talk about other people's faults than admit their own.

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[–] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 6 points 1 month ago

Oh jeez I feel this. Had to have 'the conversation' the other day too (again) w/ mum. She's no longer driving but the topic keeps coming up.

[–] Force_majeure112@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

πŸ˜” my poor dad barely passed his recent driving test, and almost definitely won't pass his next. His partner will keep him in line though and won't let him try when he's not allowed

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[–] Alamutjones@aussie.zone 6 points 1 month ago

Got a bag to pack and I'm procrastinating it

[–] Force_majeure112@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (7 children)
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[–] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I am so tired, sorry I'm not more active here

goodnight, sweet dreams everyone 😘

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[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Took a walk today and am now resting with Melbcat curled into me as the little spoon.

I’ve sorted her specialist appointment and am waiting for it to roll around.

Edit: Crocheting and hopping around finding something to watch. Melbcat got up to lie on the carpet… I’m fidgety and bored

[–] Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 6 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I wish I could find more people that used to live the way I did and got out, and live normal lives.

I've been looking for a long, long time.

Everyone from that world who gets out becomes an acolyte of the 12 step program. That's not for me and those people and I don't get along.

It would be nice to talk to someone who gets it.

Goodnight all β™₯️

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[–] LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 6 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Was anyone awake to see that Cloudflare outage? Couldn't access any of the readings for my assignments. Lucky I downloaded most of them!

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[–] LowExperience2368@aussie.zone 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (6 children)

oversharing about annoying friend

I don't know why she told me all this but

Found out today that the friend I've commented on about here who's always late and does other things that are inconsiderate is cheating the Centrelink system. I've been friends with her since the beginning of high school, and she would come to school without lunch because her parents wouldn't feed her and she didn't know how to feed herself. Now her father just throws money at her, probably as an apology for not actually being a parent. She lives at home with her father, studying, and is unemployed, but her father lists her as an employee so he pays less tax. She is leeching off not only his money, but is now getting payments from Centrelink because her dad's income is less than is what is reported due to the loopholes like this.

What has she done with this "free money" so far? No, she doesn't buy groceries often or contribute to the household. She's sent me pictures of the things she's bought - $250 worth of lipsticks (half price on sale), a $250 bracelet, and a speaker for her PC. When it comes to going out for food though, she won't spend more than $15 ever. Or she will drive (using her dad's money for petrol) to places pretty out of the way to get cheap food.

Meanwhile, people on the DSP can't move in with their partners earning an income, because the system thinks their partner can support them.

I've commented on all this before but it's "free money" so she doesn't care. I don't engage with her when she tells me what she's bought. It's absolutely disgusting how the system allows for things like this. I appreciate that I can be my weird self around this friend, but the misalignment of morals and values we've got going is really rubbing me the wrong way.

[–] SaneMartigan@aussie.zone 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)

You should ditch this person.

[–] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I love that you feel like you can be your weird self around this friend, but it also seems like they weigh you down in so many other ways. There will be other friends out there that will prop you up without being a weight on the other side.

I agree. Our mutual friend makes me feel that way.

[–] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 7 points 1 month ago (2 children)

😠

So what about the mum? What is she doing?

and also πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ, it takes all kinds of people and I gave up long ago wasting time and emotion on fretting on how other people live. I only have enough energy for myself, fam and friends and to help people in need.

So friend is not a really bad person? Then don't worry about it.

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[–] tombruzzo@aussie.zone 5 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Here's another thing I don't get: Influencers that are just like a regular person. I can understand following rich people or people that were famous for something once. But I saw one woman who just lives in a 100 year old house and is renovating it kind of. I can understand if someone has an online presence about something, but there are people who are just there and don't seem to have any particular niche or angle.

Jenna something? My ex used to watch her because he wanted to renovate a house one day and kind of got me onto it. But the regular people, I think people want to relate to others and feel "connected". Rich people are far removed from them.

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[–] Pilk@aussie.zone 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Turned on lossless on Spotify. There is a very clear positive difference in audio quality and not in a gold-plated-audio-cable kind of way. Sounds very full and detailed -- pumping bass and very crispy hi-hats. Didn't know what I was missing.

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[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Some random sketchy dude walked past my flat, came back and peered inside, and claimed to be looking for someone. I growled at him until he left and called the cops. Gfdi.

Come to think of it I heard a sus amount of noise outside earlier but thought it was the black cat. Who knows.

Nights like these I wish I was larger. But it seems I did manage to spook him.

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