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Places to do a private chat among friends? (Web) (lemmy.world)
submitted 2 weeks ago by MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world to c/privacy@lemmy.world
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Not Matrix, it's glitchy. Not Element.io, web doesn't work on mobiles.

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[–] mrus 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

You and your friend should..

  • create and exchange a set of Age public keys
  • use them to encrypt a simple text file
  • bzip the encrypted file
  • convert the binary archive to base64
  • embed the base64 using Pixelknot into a photo downloaded from unsplash that contains a distinct object you both agreed on (eg a windmill)
  • upload the file to imgur

Now you both can privately chat with each other by monitoring imgur's latest uploads, downloading every image that contains a windmill, read the base64 string, convert it to its binary bzip form, unpack the encrypted file and decrypt it.

[–] drkt@scribe.disroot.org 4 points 2 weeks ago

Encrypt what you want to say and use whatever means of transport you want.

[–] Limerance@piefed.social 2 points 2 weeks ago

Jabber with encryption is good.

[–] unmagical@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 weeks ago

Self hosted rocketchat or Jitsi?

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

This question is so generic with added weird statements, there are literally dozens of solutions with little research. Due to this I assume you haven't formulated all your requirements and want us to get them out of you.

[–] MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

There ain't really much requirements to make a big post listing them. I just want a place to chat with my friends.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Well then, literally almost ANY chat daemon you can install in any Linux will just do. And there are loads!

If you want to pay a provider to do that or rent a cheap Vs and do it yourself is another thing.

So if some guidance is all you need that's fine and something I'll gladly provide. Rocketchat - as someone else already posted - is relatively recent but also quite modern due to this, running in browser, app or mobile (but quite the overkill für a handful of people).

Any really old IRC based daemon would not require any resources by today's standards and still run perfectly for your case. But it's very old standards might not fit your expectations.

[–] Ludicrous0251@piefed.zip 2 points 1 week ago

Have normal friends? Signal. It just works. Have difficult/paranoid friends? See the other commenter's imgur idea.

[–] yessikg@fedia.io 1 points 2 weeks ago

https://movim.eu/ (it's an XMPP web client that works on mobile also)

[–] bootleg@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago

You can use OnionShare to host a chat instance on the Web over Tor.

[–] North@lemmy.org 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Use Signal. It's pretty secure and private and the best thing about it is that it's also FOSS!

[–] MeowerMisfit817@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Yea, I use Signal with my in real life friends, I just wanted a website alternative to use with friends i make online

(nvm, found ZulipChat)

[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 weeks ago

Distribute a codex to your friends by hand, then use it to talk on any platform

[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

IRC with tor or i2p should fit the bill. On mobile you can use orbot to have the tor service running in the background and then configure your IRC client to use the correct port (5050? Can't quite remember).

[–] artyom@piefed.social 1 points 2 weeks ago

This is the only one I can think of ATM that runs in the browser: https://github.com/positive-intentions/chat