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ChatGPT will now predict your age based on how you interact with it

It seems now #openai is doing age estimation too based on this email I received,

After Google who made the "Age signals API" into Android phones, now OpenAI will "predict your age based on how you interact with our services".

No, I don't want #chatgpt to analyze my age, thank you very much, (I always used the privage chat mode anyways, whatever impact it actually has on the data they use), so I will now switch to an alternative that doesn't do that : https://chat.mistral.ai/

Don't misunderstand me, protecting children is a good idea, but if that implies having to be analyzed by an #AI and having your experience change based on that, I'm heavily against it.

Although it's convenient, if it starts analyzing my behaviour as well then I guess it will be a good time to start thinking a bit more on my own and only rely on AI as a last resort solution...

Their article https://help.openai.com/en/articles/12652064-age-prediction-in-chatgpt

@privacy@lemmy.ml @privacy@lemmy.world

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[–] LeTak@feddit.org 2 points 7 hours ago

Mhhhh another FairMail user, a person of culture. I only used it because it was the only OSS client with encryption and signature support

[–] DancingBear@midwest.social 3 points 8 hours ago

ChatGPT, hello. This is the first time we have chat. What can I give my wife for our 18th wedding anniversary.

Hello kids, start every conversation with ai like this and you’ll be fine

[–] rizzothesmall@sh.itjust.works 1 points 8 hours ago

Start asking it questions about what to do with your grandkids, and what sort of music the youth are into, and how you're supposed to spend all your disposable retirement money.

[–] glitching@lemmy.ml 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[–] BaroqueW@lemmy.world 1 points 21 hours ago

Damn, I'm stealing this like I am training an LLM

[–] BennyTheExplorer@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

Just don't use AI and you'll be fine

[–] astutemural@midwest.social 23 points 1 day ago

This will last right up until all the right-wingers get pissed they're being identified as teenagers based on their 5th grade writing level.

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago

Finally I see a use for AI. In a carnival midway. "I will guess your age for $250".

[–] PiraHxCx@lemmy.dbzer0.com 25 points 1 day ago

guy using chat gpt to ask about anime waifus and the bot confused if he's 12 or 45.

[–] hector@lemmy.today 5 points 1 day ago

So corporations will decide whether you should be forced to surrender commercially valuable personal data to them, that makes them more money. Great system guys! If we can't trust mega corporations with political connections, who can we trust?

[–] ageedizzle@piefed.ca 41 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I recommend duck.ai as an alternative way of accessing ChatGTP. Is not a perfect solution but it’s better than accessing it straight from the OpenAI website

[–] TachyonTele@piefed.social 32 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I recommend just searching for what you want and reading the results yourself.

[–] ageedizzle@piefed.ca 24 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I do too. But if someone really does want to use these tools then there are better and worse ways of doing it

[–] TachyonTele@piefed.social 5 points 1 day ago

True, that's a good point

[–] akilou@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yes but sometimes using AI like this is so much easier. I find it really useful in troubleshooting tech problems because you can tell it your specific setup and iterate on solutions until something works. So much easier than reading through 1,000 StackExchange threads which approximate your problem

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[–] akilou@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Similarly, Proton has Lumo

lumo.proton.me/

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[–] helloyanis@furries.club 8 points 1 day ago (4 children)

@ageedizzle I plan on using https://chat.mistral.ai/ since it's a completely different model that is open source and based in france so regulated by GDPR. If you still use ChatGPT but from somewhere else, it kinda defeats the purpose to switch away from it, in my opinion.

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[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

The whole idea of software services where the output is not a function of the input, but rather a function of the input plus all the data the service has been able to harvest about you has always been awful. It was awful when google started doing it years ago and it's awful when LLM frontends do it now. You should be able to know that what you are seeing is what others would see, and have some assurance that you aren't being manipulated on a personal level.

[–] calmblue75@lemmy.ml 3 points 9 hours ago

It's shocking how much this 'personalized' stuff is normalized.

[–] Fancy_Gecko@lemmy.ml 25 points 1 day ago (2 children)

i hate living in the crypto , ai and big social media era

[–] JonEFive@midwest.social 14 points 1 day ago (7 children)

It's only getting worse too. The entire US economy is being propped up by AI and crypto. It's like the sub-prime mortgage craze of the early 2000s. Lots of money going into a system that will never recoup the investment. Either they have to find a way to extract value, or the bottom's gonna fall out. Just wait for the too big to fail AI and tech bailouts.

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[–] JoeMontayna@lemmy.ml 1 points 22 hours ago
[–] treatcover@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think if you really care about privacy, you should assume they do this, no matter what they say. By the way, great job on including the image transcript. :)

[–] helloyanis@furries.club 6 points 1 day ago

@treatcover Well, you can run Mistral locally but my laptop is not powerful enough haha
Also, yeah, a small copy paste goes a long way!

[–] sudoer777@lemmy.ml 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Good, maybe people will stop using it and switch to an open-weight Chinese model

[–] pineapple@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 day ago (3 children)

If you use the app it's still sending all of your data to the company that makes the model, I guess it depends if you prefer Chinese spyware or US spyware.

[–] Truscape@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Step 1 - don't use apps on a phone and instead use an appropriate open source sandbox on an actual x86 machine.

The mobile-focused development cycle and its consequences have been a disaster for user agency.

[–] grue@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

The mobile-focused development cycle and its consequences have been a disaster for user agency.

Could you repeat that louder for the folks at the back?

(Also, it's a statement that's generally true in ways completely unreleated to AI.)

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[–] sudoer777@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago

At least they use your data to make a model that's open weight

[–] Lfrith@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

And using either of them doesn't guarantee your data won't get out anyways for products provided by corporations like the recent tiktok outcome showed where a billion dollar company would rather sell out than close down to protect users.

[–] artyom@piefed.social 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If you absolutely must use ChatGPT, you can do it with Duck.ai as a proxy to protect your personal info.

[–] Maroon@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I have duckduckgo as my default engine. But how to set up this proxy to ChatGPT?

[–] artyom@piefed.social 1 points 23 hours ago

No setup required, just go to duck.ai

[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 day ago

If at all possible, anyone that cares about their privacy should be self hosting.

https://lemmy.world/c/selfhosted

[–] schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

At some point in the 2000s I chatted with the SmarterChild chatbot on MSN Messenger for a while. I was around 11 or 12 years old at the time.

I remember it once answering "sorry, web search is only available to adult users", to which I responded "how do you know I'm just a child?". I don't remember what came before or after that… it might have asked me my DOB at some point before that, but am until today not sure how it knew that. Point is, none of this is new… 😁

[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

how do you know I'm just a child?"

"You just told me, kiddo!"

[–] DieserTypMatthias@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 day ago

Try any model with LMStudio and with the DuckDuckgo search plugin to it. It works better than you might think.

[–] solrize@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

So if I talk about hemorrhoids enough, it will think I'm old and let me into the pr0n sites! Cool!!!

[–] schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 day ago

You would be surprised what health problems people under 18 can have.

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