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[–] ButteryMonkey@piefed.social 4 points 6 days ago

I love having short hair, like short and spiked in back with long sweep bangs in front, because my hair is very fine and thick, so very staticky and limp and stick straight and boring, but I usually keep it tuck-into-pants long.

It grows about an inch a month, and I’m not swapping my routines from “cut 8-10 inch off once per year at most” to “cut once a month or more or have it look like shit”. I can’t afford that at $65/cut anyway.

I did have that super short cute style for a couple years and I loved it, but the upkeep suuuuuuuucked. I had the energy for it back then tho, cuz it was also doing fun colors I’d swap out every week or so. But the upkeep on long hair that I never leave down is also starting to suck so idk.. maybe I’ll go back to fun colors, make the cuts worth it. Learn to maintain the back myself (I already do the bangs myself, they are the same I have now, so)

[–] wolfrasin@lemmy.today 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Undercut is both and awesome

[–] cactusfangs@sh.itjust.works 4 points 6 days ago

Omg yes! I haven’t gone back to any other style since I got my first one years ago

[–] sparkles@piefed.zip 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I’m in this. I want to go short but so many people would shit on me, hence, I haven’t.

[–] Evkob@lemmy.ca 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I agree with the other commenter, fuck those people. Hair is such a great means of self-expression.

[–] sparkles@piefed.zip 2 points 6 days ago

You are both correct, if it was just the adults I might be able to handle it. But I deal with DD and how I look and present being very routine is important. And I want to lop off about 2ft.

[–] Canadian_anarchist@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

What you do with your hair is no one else's business. Don't let others make you feel like you can't have fun with your hair style. Hair grows back, and you can color it what you like.