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A Boring Dystopia

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[–] fireweed@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

I'd like someone to call out for once how most media "for adults" nowadays is, by default, extremely violent and sexually explicit... call it the GoT phenomenon.

To be clear, I'm glad that media is no longer bound by the puritanical and often hypocritical FCC standards, and that subscription cable like HBO and streaming networks like Netflix have freedom of expression. But now everything aimed at adults, it seems, is also rated for adults. Where are the emotionally/intellectually mature stories that are also fun and joyous? That there are adults singing along to KPop DH in theaters as the article mentions shows that there's clearly an untapped market here (imagine a similarly bright and flashy movie with catchy music but also a decent plot? How popular could that become!). The article also calls out cozy games and other "childish" things... How much of this is because of arrested development vs a desire to engage with entertainment that isn't a deluge of blood, sex, and misery?

I'm sure some of these people genuinely enjoy their childish media because it's childish, but many are just trying to engage with something bright, cheery, fun, and not reminiscent of the nightmare that is reality.

[–] CrackedLinuxISO@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I don't see the connection between the "Disney adults" described by this article and the wider "kidult culture" that's supposedly characterized by playing Stardew Valley and watching K-Pop Demon Hunters.

On the one hand, this article points to people spending huge sums of money to permanently live in a constructed escapist fantasy, and on the other hand you have (relatively) cheap media where someone might spend a few hours engaging with in their free time each day.

Calling out "cozy games" where you "tend vegetable gardens" is especially odd: The clearest connection to escapism in those games is about living in a community where everyone is connected on a personal level. You know, the very thing capitalist society abolishes for profit every day. I don't see where enjoyment of that media connects to living a Disney-themed life, basically the complete opposite.

[–] Pudutr0n@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

American culture is stuck in adolescence because culture has shifted towards the complete annihilation of any and all significant rites of passage into adulthood.

A child is someone that needs to be told what they can and can't do.
An adolescent is someone who tests the limits of what they can and can't do.
An adult is someone who enforces socially responsible limits of what they themselves and others can and can't do.

Never telling people "these are now your responsibilities towards others and we all expect you to take them seriously" in an in-equivocal ceremonial way is how you destroy a society.

[–] Hegar@fedia.io 1 points 4 days ago

I don't think you can say that no rites of passage means not becoming an adult. Rituals smooth or explain transitions, they're not a requirement for the transition to happen.

And besides their are plenty of rites of passage into adulthood in the US - first car is huge, moving out of home, first job, etc.

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

Really didn't expect that reference...

In Simulacra and Simulation, French theorist Jean Baudrillard once wrote that Disneyland is “presented as imaginary in order to make us believe that the rest is real.”

Baudrillard now says he was off base with that book, but it's hard to write it off after the last decade.

[–] I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.world 0 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Who cares? Look around, the world is shit. Is it really surprising that there are people who try to escape this reality for a few days by spending their money to visit a place specifically built to provide joy and wonder?

Like damn, don't y'all have better things to do than shit on people's coping mechanisms?

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

You have that wrong. The people who can afford Disney are the one who are living it up because they have all the money.

A Disney vacation for 4 now requires you to have an income in the 200K range. It's for upper middle-class and richer people now. Everything in the park now has premium optional pricing, like the lightning passes to skip ride lines, etc.

The people who need the escapism, can't afford Disney parks anymore.

My sister is the target customer. She's in her 50s, her income is about 700K a year, and she goes to Disney parks twice a year and drops about 10-20K on each trip. But even she is getting pissed off at the massive price increases the last few years, she now only goes once a year instead of twice.

She has gone to Disney parks her entire adult life she since was like 25.

[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 0 points 4 days ago (1 children)

No families can afford theme parks in this economy.

[–] makeshift0546@lemmy.today -1 points 4 days ago

Charly you haven't been.

[–] Tempus_Fugit@lemmy.world 0 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Disney adults are the most cringe shit ever.

[–] Hegar@fedia.io 1 points 4 days ago

I worked at big CA-based drug company, granted it was largely a phone-room but it was still a fairly serious job, with serious pay.

Most staff came up from CA and loved disney so hard. Disney movies were a topic at meetings, they expected everyone would know the characters, used disney references in presentations, characters as test patients, etc. Managers too.

Finding others who hated disney was like finding stoners at work before it was legal - all euphamisms and inuendo until you work out who to trust: "No i don't really have a favourite character", "I'm not familiar with that", "No, I ugh... haven't seen... i'm not super into... Oh thank god, yes, of course i fucking hate disney, who could possibly like the least interesting version of a fairytale marketed by a billion dollar empire founded by a nazi and evil enough to copyright happy birthday?!"