I'm only attracted to women, but I have an erogenous zone up my butt and I love getting blowjobs.
It's complicated.
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Bi guy. Though I've never been with a guy, only women.
How u doin'? Oo
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Although I can see the uses in making up terms to define who you're attracted to, I dont like the idea of putting yourself in a box. Ive had straight friends get really confused when they find themselves attracted to the same sex, and gay friends get really confused when they find themselves attracted to the opposite sex. When you "join" a sexuality you dont sign a contract or anything. A while ago I figured out I was bisexual. It was pretty great for a while, cause I was able to figure myself out and feel more free because of it. I didnt feel guilty for having certain thoughts. However, eventually I started to have some problems with the label itself. In this day and age, what even is a man or a woman? Ive found myself being attracted to people that dont identify as either gender. And isnt gender supposed to be a societal construct? In that case, why do we care so much about it in the case of define sexual identities? Im no philosopher or social scientist, so I may just be talking out of my own ass here so forgive my ignorance. Nowadays whenever some asks me my sexuality (which by the way is a very weird thing to ask people you just met in real life) I always say "on a case by case basis".
Honest question: Why do you feel the need to categorize your sexuality? I myself am 40 years old and still don't know which category I fit in. What need/itch do you fill by naming this part of your persona?
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I don't know but I have been thinking I'm hetero :D
I'm trans btw
Straight ally. Happy pride month!
This made me laugh more than it should have
I'm part of the Anxious Bisexual Nerd Team!
Actually not sure ay. I've been intimate with a big variety of people, but I still feel odd trying to label it. I definately lean closer to straight than anything else, but i dunno
Straight cis guy here. Doing my best to live as an ally in the ways that I can. Happy to be here with all of you!
Demisexual
I'm like a Kinsey 1.5. Just bi enough to be uncomfortable with the "straight" label but too hetero to feel comfortable claiming "bi." It's great 🙃
Not being sure about being bi is sooo bi culture. Embrace the bi my bi friend <3
Lesbian
ace 🌈
Just boring old gay guy here. A dude who likes dudes.
Transenby
Pan as hell no matter what my imposter syndrome tells me!
Super duper pansexual.
Can't we make a poll instead?
Is it possible to make a poll on Lemmy?
No, it's not. The best thing you can do at the moment is to provide options and ask people to upvote them.
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passes the garlic bread
Another bi guy here :)
Just another gay fella joining the fediverse.
I'm abrosexual. That means my sexuality changes over time, a bit like being genderfluid.
My flag:
Also a bi guy! Hi :)
A gay dude ✨
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