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submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by Bicyclejohn@lemmy.ml to c/lgbtq_plus@beehaw.org

I'm just a bi guy. I found out pretty recently

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[-] noodlejetski@beehaw.org 32 points 2 years ago
[-] Lycan@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

This made me laugh more than it should have

[-] ADHDefy@kbin.social 26 points 2 years ago

I am the only straight person on the Fediverse, AMA.

[-] dax@beehaw.org 16 points 2 years ago

as the only straight person on the fediverse, I just found out that you are me. we are one.

neat.

[-] averagedrunk@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 years ago

Damn, we should start a club.

I'm a straight guy that is happy when others are happy.

[-] noodlejetski@beehaw.org 8 points 2 years ago

u guys should totes make out

[-] frogman@beehaw.org 8 points 2 years ago

as a straight, can confirm i have and will continue to kiss with my same-sex friends

[-] EponymousBosh@beehaw.org 18 points 2 years ago

I'm like a Kinsey 1.5. Just bi enough to be uncomfortable with the "straight" label but too hetero to feel comfortable claiming "bi." It's great 🙃

[-] vgnbsxl@feddit.de 11 points 2 years ago

Not being sure about being bi is sooo bi culture. Embrace the bi my bi friend <3

[-] Monthly_Vent@beehaw.org 16 points 2 years ago

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[-] IndeterminateName@beehaw.org 9 points 2 years ago

passes the garlic bread

[-] arcticpiecitylights@beehaw.org 14 points 2 years ago

Straight cis guy here. Doing my best to live as an ally in the ways that I can. Happy to be here with all of you!

[-] hot_bowl_cold_soup@beehaw.org 14 points 2 years ago

Straight ally. Happy pride month!

[-] jerkface@lemmy.ca 14 points 2 years ago

I like to have sex with people I'm attracted to. Sometimes other people, too.

[-] foopo666@sopuli.xyz 12 points 2 years ago

I, too, identify as a slut

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[-] Kot_Box@beehaw.org 13 points 2 years ago

I'm part of the Anxious Bisexual Nerd Team!

[-] Butterbee@beehaw.org 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)
[-] moth@beehaw.org 10 points 2 years ago
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[-] cavemeat@beehaw.org 12 points 2 years ago

I'm pan/bi/omni. I think people are hot.

[-] Bicyclejohn@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 years ago

People hot, I agree

[-] animist@lemmy.one 6 points 2 years ago

Yeah as long as the other person is human, close to me in age, and consenting

[-] darylsun@beehaw.org 11 points 2 years ago

Ace! I think people are hot, but I don't want to do the nasty with any of them.

[-] Lowbird@beehaw.org 10 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm ace. It took me a long-ass time to figure that out, as often happens. I thought I was bi for a while because 0 = 0 lol.

Edit: also not aro, and nonbinary (agender, mostly), since people are specifying this as well.

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[-] Lycan@beehaw.org 10 points 2 years ago

I'm gay. Nothing special lol

[-] Elyssa_Greensley@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

You are special to someone.

[-] spoonful@beehaw.org 9 points 2 years ago

Straight male though I'd like to think I'm pansexual. I honestly don't see why anyone could not be compatible with someone just because of biological gender in an ideal world. People are pretty awesome.

[-] Nyaa@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 years ago

I found out I'm pan a few months ago. Only ever been in hetero/straight relationships, though. Mainly due to being in the closet, as well as being a huge introvert.

[-] cornballdefense@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 years ago

Bi cis woman, but I ended up marrying my hs sweetheart so only really been in het relationships. No regrets, he's my favorite human!

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[-] agonizingnose@lemmy.nz 8 points 2 years ago

Actually not sure ay. I've been intimate with a big variety of people, but I still feel odd trying to label it. I definately lean closer to straight than anything else, but i dunno

[-] Wilshire@beehaw.org 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

$20 is $20

/s

[-] emeraldheart@beehaw.org 8 points 2 years ago

Just another gay fella joining the fediverse.

[-] iam8bitwolf@beehaw.org 8 points 2 years ago

Asexual, with no other qualifiers i.e. not demi or aego etc. I figured this all out when I was like 11 and, after over a decade, still hasn't changed

[-] sefene@beehaw.org 7 points 2 years ago

Straight trans woman, my boyfriend is super loving <3

[-] Infinitybiscuit@beehaw.org 7 points 2 years ago
[-] JCPhoenix@beehaw.org 7 points 2 years ago

Bi guy. Though I've never been with a guy, only women.

How u doin'? Oo

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[-] QueenOfSquiggles@lemmy.one 7 points 2 years ago

I'm bi-ace <3

Optionally pronounced like an Italian word.

[-] warrier120@beehaw.org 7 points 2 years ago

Bi. The bi-cycle fucks with me a lot though.

[-] AwkwardChuckle@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

Gay trans man here!

[-] StrahdVonZarovich@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

Although I can see the uses in making up terms to define who you're attracted to, I dont like the idea of putting yourself in a box. Ive had straight friends get really confused when they find themselves attracted to the same sex, and gay friends get really confused when they find themselves attracted to the opposite sex. When you "join" a sexuality you dont sign a contract or anything. A while ago I figured out I was bisexual. It was pretty great for a while, cause I was able to figure myself out and feel more free because of it. I didnt feel guilty for having certain thoughts. However, eventually I started to have some problems with the label itself. In this day and age, what even is a man or a woman? Ive found myself being attracted to people that dont identify as either gender. And isnt gender supposed to be a societal construct? In that case, why do we care so much about it in the case of define sexual identities? Im no philosopher or social scientist, so I may just be talking out of my own ass here so forgive my ignorance. Nowadays whenever some asks me my sexuality (which by the way is a very weird thing to ask people you just met in real life) I always say "on a case by case basis".

[-] wispi@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

Super duper pansexual.

[-] Poot@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago

Just boring old gay guy here. A dude who likes dudes.

[-] Halvdan@sopuli.xyz 6 points 2 years ago

Normally straight-ish, but currently I would say indifferent due to the meds I'm on.

[-] xangria@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago
[-] Cattypat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 years ago

Bi, but only been in het relationships. Dudes I know just are all assholes.

[-] IcedCoffeeBitch@beehaw.org 6 points 2 years ago

Lesbian here :3

[-] pickles@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 years ago

Panromantic ace, checking in. Welcome!

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