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You can't change people. They have to want it themselves. If she's not looking for any help, there's nothing you can do.

The only thing that might happen if you're not a very actually good friend with them, is they might dial it back in your presence to not be annoyed by you about it.

Complaining does not constitute "wanting help". Most people complain just because it makes them feel better in the moment.

Nix zu danken. Ist verständlich das mit dem alleine sein.

Ich hab selbst vor 2.5 Jahren einvernehmlich ne 7 jährige Beziehung beendet, ich habe die Grundlagen geändert und sie hat dann gesagt, dass das für sie nicht geht. War danach auch ziemlich am Arsch xD

Dann mal viel Spaß mit dem remaster. Ich hab zu der Zeit viel Dota gespielt :)

Makes sense to me. I came back to this a little late, did not see your replies to my comment(s) until now. Having read everything you wrote: your parents not at home (I thought they were), she reducing sex massively, her not wanting to talk about you, the increase in contact to the guy, all seemed to me like she was not attracted to you anymore.

I'm really sorry. If you need someone to talk to or something (in German as well if you like, your name sounds like that, I'm from Germany), we can if you want. I haven't had a situation like this, but I know how much breakups hurt.

So to get to your actual question, from what exactly you wrote you definitely seem to be overreacting to this specific situation. They're at her parents home, she's unlikely to have any intentions to cheat on you there.

However, if you don't mind me saying, your relationship also doesn't sound completely secure to me. Would you mind some more questions regarding the general relationship and yourself and some advice in that regard or are you fine with this for now? :)

I'm sorry if this is not what you're asking... But sex 2-3 times a week to 2-4 times a year? Are you really ok with that? This is what stands out to me most here.

But isn't "pick up multiple orders at a restaurant, then figuring out in which order to deliver them to minimize time spent delivering" the traveling salesman problem? I thought that's what the post referred to.

https://lemmyverse.net/communities

The Next Generation S2E02 "Where Silence Has Lease"

The Enterprise encounters a mysterious void

Gibt keinen Grund, nicht mehrere Sachen zu machen. Klar zeigt es Voreingenommenheit, wenn Sachen, die Neukäufe anregen, präferiert implementiert werden, aber deswegen muss man generell guten Dingen nicht im Weg stehen, nur weil es effektivere gibt, die sinnvollerweise zuerst drankommen sollten.

Die Frage ist, ob diese Maßnahmen wirklich den Effekt haben, der rumposaunt wird, ich kann mir vorstellen, dass diese Analyse maßlos übertrieben ist und viel weniger Probleme durch tatsächlich alte Autos kommen, und vielmehr durch die Art der Leute, die diese alten Autos fahren. Wurde bestimmt nicht gescheit separiert. Weil alte Autos werden wohl öfter von Fahranfängern oder Senioren gefahren.

Ja und keine Pflicht für über 70 jährige Eignungstests fürs Fahren zu machen.

You're likely gonna experience racism in some form in any community you go to where you are the minority. People are racist, not people of some specific skin color.

So your assessment is correct, if you go to a majority black community you're probably gonna find people racist against white people.

But when you go to the US, white is still the majority. And if you're not the majority, you're mostly still a large part. Statistically, the most racism you'll experience is everyday racism, where maybe some black people believe you're an asshole even though you aren't. Most of the time you're not going to experience anything.

So they have a dedicated space for spam. Still is spam.