BilduEnjoyer

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[–] BilduEnjoyer@hexbear.net 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Thanks!

I have a few questions. You can DM me if you aren't comfortable answering them here.

  1. Any recommendations for a pc repair place? There are a ton here but I am nervous about my remedial spanish and I fear getting ripped off. My laptop needs a new battery and it likely needs new thermal paste in the cpu, so any recs for repair/supplies is appreciated.

  2. Speaking of, I could repair the laptop myself but idk what service people use for online orders here. Amazon is 10€ to 20€ delivery fee (I assume to discourage people from using Amazon, but still, ow!) I also need distilled water but every time I go to the pharmacy I get "???????" In response. I need it for my CPAP. I assume locals use different online services.

  3. Any good queer hangout spaces/lounges around here? I'm an introvert so while I can enjoy the Disco, it's not ideal.

  4. My old city had a newspaper distributed around the city featuring local news/events/want ads. Think "The Stranger" or "Los Angeles Reader", does Bilbao have anything like that?

Ty for your time!

 

Pictured: A large mural of the Palestinian flag with a reference to Geurnika by Pablo Picasso.

Basque word of the Day: Askatu- Freedom/Liberation

Things are going well here. The Chinese friend I mentioned in the previous post is now my bestie. We’ve been hanging out daily and she even offered to host me in China so I could visit her family! I told her I plan to take her up on this once I get my Spanish citizenship in a few months.

She knows I’m gay/trans and she wants to be a matchmaker, “I will help you find a good man!” thonk-cri

I’ve been thriving here and every day I’m so happy that I managed to escape Burger Land.

HOWEVER: By having a Chinese friend I have been exposed to good ole sinophobia and racism. A dude at the bar asked me “why the Chinese? Why are you with Chinese people?”

We’ve been harassed by the elderly when we tried to study in a cafe. I’ve been pestered for looking not Basque enough (though I think in this case it’s because of anti-tourism sentiment in the region), and we’ve gotten dirty looks for just… hanging out?

Granted, most of it is from cranky old men. The rest is from general assholes. Most people have been chill, especially younger people, but after coming from the USA the bold racism is a culture shock and frankly- fucking annoying.

[–] BilduEnjoyer@hexbear.net 2 points 6 days ago

Ah, I recommend keeping it succinct and answering more questions should they ask. Caregiving + death of a close family member is a very good reason for a gap and, in my experience hiring and being hired- good employers will be understanding.

I can relate to wanting to explain everything, I was always (and still can be) afraid of being misunderstood, but the more I’ve practiced interviews the more I’ve learned to respond succinctly. Honestly, a job interview is more to see confidence and if you’ll get along with your co-workers.

Just talk casually, like “Yeah, I had to spend time caring for a sick family member and I lost a parent. It was a full time job.”

Anyone who is sane will be empathetic, if they aren’t, fuck that job, run.

Also my favorite job seeking tip is at the end of the interview ask this question: “If you were to hire me, what strengths do you see me in that position? What would my day to day look Iike at your company?”

By asking this question you get the employer thinking about you already working there and that will stick with them.

I also recommend that prior to the interview you have a good meal, exercise, and do some breathing exercises to relax. It is tough when you are desperate for work, but the reality is the more that you relax the better your chances. Focus on what you know you’re good at and be kind to yourself.

[–] BilduEnjoyer@hexbear.net 2 points 6 days ago

No problem, good luck with your job hunt!

[–] BilduEnjoyer@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

OK so, I’ve dealt with long job gaps before. IMO, 2 years isn’t that bad. It’s pretty easy to skirt the issue around this. (I’ve also helped with hiring employees so i know the drill)

I recommend being honest and saying “My father passed away, and I took some time to process this. Then I worked on myself did odd jobs, and now that I’m feeling better I feel I can better commit to your company.” Keep in mind- odd jobs can include hobbies, learning skills like languages, or even learning ways to improve yourself emotionally. When we were looking for employees we wanted to see people who just used that time to better themselves. (Tho I worked for a nonprofit that helped students so ymmv)

A good workplace will be sympathetic. I recommend going to a job center and doing some mock-interviews to help build your confidence up.

[–] BilduEnjoyer@hexbear.net 23 points 1 week ago

lol my mental health was thriving during lockdown. I was doing so many hobbies. My friends held discord movie watch parties and I reconnected with a lot of people.

I’m also an introverted nerd tho.

[–] BilduEnjoyer@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago

edgeworth-shrug Understood, the court has spoken.

[–] BilduEnjoyer@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

objection edgeworth-pissed This violates volcel protocol! Volcel police!

[–] BilduEnjoyer@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago

Oh yeah. It’s bad. I’ve never been but I have a friend who just escaped and they have nothing but horror stories. I hesitate to call it third world because I don’t think that’s the best terminology, but for lack of better phrasing- Louisiana is 3rd world. It has been compared to regions of Africa in terms of corruption/lack of sanitation/services. New Orleans did not recover from Hurricane Katrina.

[–] BilduEnjoyer@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago (4 children)

The more I learn about Louisiana the more I hope for a revolution.

Not only do they have literally collapsing infrastructure (like freeway on-ramps), poison in their air and tap water, and “forbidden zones” in the country side, a cancer epidemic, there is this shit. Such a wonderful culture and people who are being tortured by big oil/capitalism.

[–] BilduEnjoyer@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago

Regarding Edit: You’re good! It’s interesting to learn about your culture and other European experiences.

[–] BilduEnjoyer@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah I’m really curious about anti-communism in the Balkans, was anti-communism funded by USAid?

I was curious about Balkan states so I started watching some YouTube videos and the hosts would often complain about their bad infrastructure, or that “boomers don’t know what they’re talking about, the Soviet Union was terrible!” Even though “boomers” lived in the soviet state and have lived experience. Like, I know generations can disagree on things, but the disconnect is so bizarre to me.

The Soviet Union built so much, and it’s only falling apart because the current capitalist government refuses to update/maintain/restore these buildings.

[–] BilduEnjoyer@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago

I read cultural osmosis and thought “cultural osmosis jones” and then I imagined a chud choking on an Ebola egg.

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Pictured: “Free/Liberate Palestine!” In Basque.

I also saw a Palestine remix of Geurnika but it was high up on an industrial silo and I couldn’t get a good picture of it. sadness

Yesterday was spent exploring local communities and villages. It was pretty quiet because it was Sunday on an off season. I am limiting photos because I post my stuff on social media, so what is on hexbear is only on hexbear.

Basque word of the day: “Txirimiri” (Pronounced similar to Cheer-e-meer-e). The word describes the sound of a light drizzle. Similar to “sprinkling rain”.

Today I spoke with my Chinese classmate who asked me “Why do American’s hate their home and president so much, it’s not like the president lives in their house.”

“I could explain over coffee if you want, I’m interested in your perspective from China as well.”

So she gave me a cigarette and we had a conversation over lunch. She is from hongkong so her perspective was different towards the mainland government. (All government is bad, high taxes, etc.)

I was told that in China what most Chinese know about America was from television. I told her that what is seen is only true for rich Americans, but for everyone else we are a product to be used by the rich for profit. By the end of the conversation my poor classmate was just john-agony

(She has friends who moved to America to start a business recently)

It was a productive conversation and I made a new friend! I’m going to meet up with her and her husband tomorrow and we’re going to go to the library.

 

Pictured: ACAB at a public, well maintained, outdoor gym.

I’m a long time Hexbear lurker. I came here as a lib from r/chapotraphouse and now I’m a lib who has read some theory. Thanks y’all!

I am Basque diaspora and trans masc. I had been planning to move to Euskadi (Basque Country) years ago, but with the rise of fascism in the states and the risk of being disappeared for being trans and openly anti-fascist I decided that I had to flee the country ASAP. I used all my savings, help from family, and a fundraiser to escape. I am extraordinarily lucky and beyond grateful to my found family and other loved ones. I hope to pay it forward.

I’m now living in a punk apartment in the middle of Bilbao, a historically anti-fascist region of Spain and a former victim of Franco’s reign of terror during the Spanish Civil War. The bones and memories of the Basque Partisans who fought and died for a better future are ever present.

A few facts about the Bilbao:

  • Bilbao has a massive community center called “Azkuna Zentroa”

https://www.azkunazentroa.eus/es/

The center contains:

  • A massive “climate refugee” space with heating in the winter and cooling in the summer for everyone to use, for free, as needed. Inside this space there is also clean bathrooms (nicest in the city imo) and an exhibition hall.

  • A library featuring DVD’s, media editing centers, reserve study sections, a floor dedicated to comics, and a residency hall for international comic artists. There are books in Basque, Spanish, various other languages.

  • A movie theater featuring independent films, locally made cinema, and more popular films for families. Tickets are about $5.50 on Tuesdays.

  • For an additional cost there is access to a really nice, low light, gym and a pool. People with disabilities are accommodated with their own specialized locker rooms. Gym classes are free with membership.

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The old part of Bilbao is over 700 years old and is full of Basque punks. There is fierce support of Palestine with actions performed every week. The center of the old town is dominated by CNT: Confederación Nacional del Trabajo, more information can be found here (Sorry it’s Wikipedia) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confederaci%C3%B3n_Nacional_del_Trabajo

CNT has been setting up “Free Sectors of Bilbao” and emancipating abandoned churches and buildings for use as housing for the homeless. I have seen these projects throughout the city, this org puts the work in and has been active for over 100 years.

I could go on but there is so much I want to blab about. Euskadi isn’t perfect, but it is an oasis in Western Europe.

AMA and I will try to answer what I can.

 

So my family is from the Basque Country and I used to live there on/off.

I’m going to be moving to the Basque Country permanently this summer because I’m trans and I can’t take it in this hellscape any longer (Also I just love the Basque Country)

Any Basque comrades here or people familiar with recent Basque/Spanish politics that can give me a comprehensive update on Spanish politics right now? I’ve been doing my own research but it’s hard to navigate Basque language.

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