Ah, I recommend keeping it succinct and answering more questions should they ask. Caregiving + death of a close family member is a very good reason for a gap and, in my experience hiring and being hired- good employers will be understanding.
I can relate to wanting to explain everything, I was always (and still can be) afraid of being misunderstood, but the more I’ve practiced interviews the more I’ve learned to respond succinctly. Honestly, a job interview is more to see confidence and if you’ll get along with your co-workers.
Just talk casually, like “Yeah, I had to spend time caring for a sick family member and I lost a parent. It was a full time job.”
Anyone who is sane will be empathetic, if they aren’t, fuck that job, run.
Also my favorite job seeking tip is at the end of the interview ask this question: “If you were to hire me, what strengths do you see me in that position? What would my day to day look Iike at your company?”
By asking this question you get the employer thinking about you already working there and that will stick with them.
I also recommend that prior to the interview you have a good meal, exercise, and do some breathing exercises to relax. It is tough when you are desperate for work, but the reality is the more that you relax the better your chances. Focus on what you know you’re good at and be kind to yourself.
Thanks!
I have a few questions. You can DM me if you aren't comfortable answering them here.
Any recommendations for a pc repair place? There are a ton here but I am nervous about my remedial spanish and I fear getting ripped off. My laptop needs a new battery and it likely needs new thermal paste in the cpu, so any recs for repair/supplies is appreciated.
Speaking of, I could repair the laptop myself but idk what service people use for online orders here. Amazon is 10€ to 20€ delivery fee (I assume to discourage people from using Amazon, but still, ow!) I also need distilled water but every time I go to the pharmacy I get "???????" In response. I need it for my CPAP. I assume locals use different online services.
Any good queer hangout spaces/lounges around here? I'm an introvert so while I can enjoy the Disco, it's not ideal.
My old city had a newspaper distributed around the city featuring local news/events/want ads. Think "The Stranger" or "Los Angeles Reader", does Bilbao have anything like that?
Ty for your time!