CantaloupeAss

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[–] CantaloupeAss@hexbear.net 19 points 7 months ago (7 children)

smug-explain actually, light speed c is only achieved in a vacuum...

No I had the same thought lol I was like what kind of shitty budget radar waves DON'T operate at light speed?

[–] CantaloupeAss@hexbear.net 18 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Thank u for recognizing that and restoring the post. It is inoffensive and does not violate the CoC, and mods using their permissions to dictate that the site can only be used as defined by the caprice of the mods is exactly why everyone has been pissed at mods recently.

Also, wow, the CoC is very well written and should be quoted and cited way more. We could have really saved a lot of struggle, both from users, mods, and admins, if everyone adhered to: if this site is not fun for you right now, log off and come back later.

[–] CantaloupeAss@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (4 children)

I just don't think "our society is garbage and our tools are useless" is a helpful thing to contribute to the conversation, and it sounds defeatist and pessimistic.

Yes, talk therapy ALONE is insufficient to end world capitalism. Yes, many of the problems people discuss in therapy are directly caused by the exploitative and rapacious nature of our economic system. Yes, talk therapy itself is captured in the privatized health care system if you are in amerikkka . No one of us can resolve that, and the leftist utopia we dream of is unlikely to be rendered in our lifetimes.

HOWEVER, if a person is suffering from persistent depression that reduces their capacity to experience joy in life and to contribute to the projects they want to contribute to, ESPECIALLY if thoughts of self harm are present, they should absolutely explore all available treatment options.

Nobody is saying "don't put a cast on your broken leg bc our society sucks", mental healthcare is no different.

I don't want to say anything else on this topic bc this conversation is very upsetting to me, feel free to have the last word or whatever.

[–] CantaloupeAss@hexbear.net 10 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (7 children)

Would you rather I had just killed myself? Sorry for not consulting you in my treatment program, the prescription is obviously to overthrow global capitalism myself in my lifetime.

All-or-nothing thinking is counterproductive. When you have a wound, do you just let it get infected, or do you apply first aid?

Maybe leave it alone when my response was clearly trying to help a comrade who is suffering? Inappropriate

[–] CantaloupeAss@hexbear.net 19 points 8 months ago

Fuck now I want borscht so bad

[–] CantaloupeAss@hexbear.net 26 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (13 children)

I want to be very clear that YES, this is the depression talking. Everything you described is real and frustrating but not insurmountable and it sounds like you are starting out in a down place before looking at each.

If you are not in therapy I would seriously suggest looking into it to try to learn coping skills to pull out of negative moods. If books are your thing I really really rely on the methods in David Burns's Feeling Good. At very least I think it is helpful to be vocal with someone you trust and who loves you about the kinds of moods you can fall into. Don't inflict it on them but just try to describe neutrally, and maybe tell them they don't need to solve it but just listen at first.

Also Seasonal Affective Disorder is real.

Sorry if any/all of this is already very obvious to you, maybe it will help someone else in the future also.

Source: constantly battling crippling depression but trying to make the best of it lol

Rooting for u comrade meow-hug

[–] CantaloupeAss@hexbear.net 4 points 8 months ago

Thanks for the write up, that's fascinating! Footy in USA is not soulless after all, that group genuinely deserves their club.

[–] CantaloupeAss@hexbear.net 5 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Columbus was supposed to move to Austin to form Austin FC, right?

That shit makes no sense to me, like, you built a stadium without knowing 11 guys who play football?????

What did Columbus supporters do to oppose the move?

[–] CantaloupeAss@hexbear.net 18 points 8 months ago

They don't have to look outside of DC to find the people who arranged that, maybe the car wasn't the issue lol

[–] CantaloupeAss@hexbear.net 6 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I wish we had open leagues for all sports. It would do away with the insanity of moving teams, every city would have a team, and we wouldn't have to watch the same teams go like 5-52 for ten years in a row. Everything about it would be better except for porky-happy

Also the German model of fan club ownership should be mandatory

[–] CantaloupeAss@hexbear.net 48 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Crabs are on standby

[–] CantaloupeAss@hexbear.net 2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

It was MW 28: https://www.bbc.com/sport/football/64929886

though I forgot City had a game in hand.

Arne Slot had the same thought haha: https://sports.yahoo.com/arsenal-were-eight-points-clear-173600076.html

Edit: sorry I just saw that you said "at this point in the season"

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