[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 23 points 5 hours ago

This isn't really an issue

[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

yea a recent irl drama in an org I'm in involved stalking people and targeted harassment and attempted social isolation of an opposition organizer...

[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

May as well also tattoo "I fucked up" on your forehead in both Cantonese and Mandarin.

They both use the Hanzi system fyi it's the same haha

[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

very NSFW over sharing


I actually once ripped my frenulum when having sex and there was blood everywhere. It's funny cause at first we thought she got her period. It took like an entire week for it to stop randomly bleeding and hurting

It stayed ripped (but healed) for about 5 years and then one day when I looked closer it was reattached again

[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 11 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I was planning on going on a decommissioned aircraft carrier that's been turned into a museum for July 4th but the more I think about it now, the more it makes me feel sick. Apparently they also have a fighter plane you can sit in lol

I feel like I should go because it's cool but idk if I'd even enjoy it atp

[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 26 points 3 days ago

Yea, I too would hide myself from my friends if I ever did something as embarrassing as this

[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 8 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

no, I personally get so turned on by people wearing niche fragrances, like Jean Paul Gaultier Le Male

I get mad when people wear layered fragrances tho, they're so naughty

[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 15 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

French food slaps. Shame it's overly pretentious a lot of times

Italian food is the most overrated shit ever. America needs to convert all its Italian restaurants into French ones tbh

[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 19 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I didn't watch the movie but I don't think these very normal conflicting emotions often escalate to a point of madness lol

It's just being human idk

[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 12 points 5 days ago

hormones don't affect bones once you're fully grown so it's probably true shrug-outta-hecks

[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 14 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

nah I think it's totally a thing. generally wider shoulders to hip ratio is more attractive as a man to women and vice versa

I think I read a study while I was cis and researching weird male/female body shit cause I unknowingly had dysphoria

[-] GaveUp@hexbear.net 21 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

more social ambience than my apartment. better decor/vibes. live music (sometimes). beer on draft. mixed cocktails. easier to get friends out to a bar than to my apartment. nice to get out and breathe fresh air. can smoothly transition to a club or rave afterwards

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They're feeling like a failure because of job shit and if they get fired they're probably gonna get deported back after their family spent essentially their entire life savings (and more?) to support them studying abroad

So far I got:

Industrial Reserve Army (Reserve Army of Labor)

Tendency for Rate of Profit to fall (to understand increasing exploitation of workers)

I want to try and keep things light

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The cause being Russia interfering with our elections

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cross-posted from: https://hexbear.net/post/2653829

instead of usb booting a custom Tails instance every time to defend their glorious revolution

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I can't really find a consistent, comprehensive answer online and I don't really feel comfortable asking my friends who are

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idk what I'm looking for from this post. But I'm honestly fine with how my face looks. But unless I look feminine, most bi-women are going to keep assuming I want to dom and top without even asking (aka treat me like a man...). Lesbians won't be attracted to me. 99% of people won't perceive me as a women and interact the same they do with other women

I think I can get FFS lined up in some months but I feel extremely weird changing my face so drastically and suddenly. I'm dissociating extremely hard rn just thinking about it. I can't imagine how bad it'd be after the surgeries. I feel like I'd lose a big part of my identity. I'm deathly afraid of looking into a mirror and not recognizing the face staring back at me

There's something about the face being by far the premier identifier for human beings here. Because if they were easy/safe, I totally would get surgeries to contract my shoulders and ribcage in an instant LOL

Honestly, so much of what I do to transition is just so the world will interact with me like a woman. I also quite like my "natural" deep heavy 75hz voice tbh. But I'm still voice training at a light valley girl 200-250hz range because I can't look masculine and have that deep a voice for people to treat me like a woman. At least the voice training is okay though, it was something that I developed in steps + I can still talk nearly the same as I did previously when I want so I don't feel divorced from who I am

Gender in its current form is so fucking stupid I want something like what some indigenous cultures had

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