I'm not taking it as you being hateful against me personally, I'm just being realistic given the market compared to your wants.
Phone manufacturers have come up with ways to handle depth of field which involve more than one camera, which invalidates a phone with an amazing sensor attached to a lens. The market isn't going to provide the device you want.
By the time that phones were good enough not to upgrade every two years, cameras in phones were good enough for most consumers.