LanyrdSkynrd

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[–] LanyrdSkynrd@hexbear.net 8 points 21 hours ago

Sorry I get my political opinions exclusively from Chuck Woolery

[–] LanyrdSkynrd@hexbear.net 2 points 22 hours ago

I still have a lot of the meals I regularly eat in MyFitnessPal, so I'll probably use that.

Thanks for the rec, tho, I'll check it out

[–] LanyrdSkynrd@hexbear.net 2 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Will my comprehensive cover someone else's car? Like I know collision works that way in my state, but I'd be surprised if comprehensive covered someone else's car when I'm not even in it.

[–] LanyrdSkynrd@hexbear.net 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

This is pretty far from big corporate. I would definitely try to avoid paying a big corporate place.

It's also not the kind of minor damage you can just ignore. It's down to bare metal with grooves, it at the very least needs to be painted to prevent rust. I bet getting it fixed 100% would cost 2k at least.

 

Tl;Dr: Took a loaner car and noticed damage several days later. Should I try to weasel out, or offer to pay something?


My car is in for body work and the shop gave me a loaner. It's a really poor condition Subaru SUV.

I've been driving it and today I noticed really weird damage to the fender. Looks like someone flung a rock or something heavy at the fender. The paint is flaking and the edge of the door has a little chip. The thing is, I have no idea if the damage was there when I picked it up. Probably wasn't because I think I would have noticed it by now.

It seems unlikely it was that way when I got it. There's a bunch of ground bare metal with no rust. You'd think a body shop guy would at least hit it with some paint to prevent rust.

I don't even see how this damage could have happened from a parking lot hit and run, and I didn't hit anything. There's a very deep round dent at the top of the fender, but the lower fender sticks out farther and isn't damaged at all. I don't think it was damaged while parked at my house, either. I have a narrow driveway. Whatever hit this came with serious force.

The only paperwork I have is a handwritten thing on one of those carbon copy receipts. It has my contact info, the mileage and vin of the vehicle and one line that says, "Customer is responsible for any and all damage to vehicle". I signed at the bottom.

Should I be straight up and tell him about it? Should I offer to pay something? It's a little shop and the guy has been pretty good to me. On the other hand, it could be a pretty expensive fix if the guy wants to milk it. To be returned to new condition it would need a new fender and paint on 2 panels.

I can't imagine the entire car is worth more than $4000. It has bad brakes, bad suspension, bad transmission, bad interior, etc. Its a 2018 with 156k miles.

Part of me thinks I should just return it and hope they don't notice right away, but it's kind of a cowardly move. Another option is to point out the damage and see what he says, and if he's unreasonable, force him to sue me/claim against my insurance.

I can afford it, but it also sucks to have to pay thousands for some parking lot hit and run or even damage that was there before I took it.

Any advice, ethical or practical?

[–] LanyrdSkynrd@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I did pretty good this week.

I ran 6 morning and did at least 5k each time. I plan to keep pushing my miles up gradually, at least to 10k 6x/week.

I ate better, but I still haven't figured out an intermittent fasting schedule that doesn't affect my ability to work. I'm going to try to calorie count for a couple weeks just to see where I'm at with my current eating. I don't think I'm doing too poorly but I can't tell without counting.

Didn't do much else besides gig work because it was super busy. Last week was my highest earning week ever and I beat that by $200 this week. My partner really wants to read Capital with me, but I just don't have the energy to read something so heavy right now. I'm hoping I can work a bit less in the coming week and at least start it.

[–] LanyrdSkynrd@hexbear.net 16 points 2 days ago (4 children)

It's kind of a stretch to call it ChatGPT related, isn't it? Sounds like pretty typical mania for a nerd.

I had a college friend with severe bipolar disorder. During his episodes he sounded a lot like this. He even spent a lot of time playing with those 2010's pre-llm chatbots thinking they were learning from him. I wouldn't call his episode a "cleverbot-related mental health crisis".

[–] LanyrdSkynrd@hexbear.net 5 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Can someone recommend a sunscreen that doesn't smell, or at least smells less?

All US sunscreen has a smell that I really don't like. A useful reddit post pointed me toward Korean and Japanese sunscreens because they don't rely on the same ingredients as am US sunscreen.

I bought Missha, a Korean sunscreen. I like it much better than American sunscreen, but it is scented. It reminds me of my grandmother, it's like old lady perfume scent.

[–] LanyrdSkynrd@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I backslid and had a tiny relapse some months back and stopped posting in these threads. I'm going to start posting here again, with a commitment to posting even if it's not going well.

I stopped running when I started doing gig work. Gig work is strangely addictive to me in the sense that I feel like I'm missing out on money any time I'm not on the app. So I hadn't had the time to run, but I realized I was making a choice to not make the time.

I've been running again for a week or so. It's going well, but I'm surprised at how quickly my ability dropped off. That first run wasn't even 1/3 of what I was doing in April, but it kicked my ass.

I've put back on some of the weight I'd previously lost. I've been trying to start intermittent fasting again, but it's tricky because my work is erratic. I've had some unexpectedly busy days where I felt like I needed to eat during my fast period. I also cheated in the evenings a few times and did the addiction thing where you're like, "I already had one candy bar, might as well have 5". I think I need to have my fasting hours start and end earlier, but I really like having a snack after work.

I haven't done much other than work and running. I have lots of projects that need doing, some that I want to do, and I want to start reading again. I also need to spend some time with my partner. We see each other daily and everything, but we haven't done anything together in months.

[–] LanyrdSkynrd@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago

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[–] LanyrdSkynrd@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago

The massive audience for sequels, remakes and and reboots must be a symptom of the rot in America

[–] LanyrdSkynrd@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago

I don't think Patagonia was sold to PE. The founder retired and put it in some kind of charitable trust.

I suspect it's not purely altruistic, since his kids are in charge and collect salaries from the trust. I also can't speak to the quality of the products now.

[–] LanyrdSkynrd@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

I have a box of darn tough socks ready to be sent back for replacement.

Not only is the warranty great, they're great socks. I used to use up socks quickly because I have messed up hips. Darn tough easily last me 10x as long as the smart wool socks I was buying before.

 
 

tl;drThey're planning to under declare the value of goods. If a company doesn't want that, the sellers will handle the shipment on both ends, bringing it through customs at a lower value and then deliver it.

How do other countries deal with this?

 

I need to find a job in the next few months. I'd been eyeing a particular part time position that would be really good for me, but I procrastinated a bit. When I got my resume and cover letter together, the job had disappeared from indeed and their website.

The same organization had a somewhat similar position still open, but with full time hours. I'm coming back into the workforce after 15+ years on disability, so I prefer part time at least to start. But the part time job was gone, so I reworked the cover letter and submitted it for the full time position.

This morning I checked and the part time position is back on both sites and says, "Hiring multiple candidates". These jobs have been open for over 6 motnhs, this is a hard area to hire in, especially given the wages.

The full-time position doesn't have any contact information listed, so there's nobody I can email and say, "Would you also consider me for (other position)?". It's not a large organization. I'd be surprised if the hiring manager was even a different person, but only the part time listing had contact information listed.

Should I just submit for the other position? Or wait and see if I get an interview/hired before applying for the other? I get the impression that they'd rather fill the full-time position, and it's a better fit for my resume/skills. I don't think it would look good to immediately apply for the part-time position after selling myself as the perfect person for the full time.

They haven't even had 1 business day to consider my first application. Indeed says they normally respond within 1 business day, but I don't know how trustworthy that is.

So, should I apply or wait a bit?

 

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A New Jersey police chief has been accused of defecating on floors, spiking the department coffee with viagra and adderall, and stabbing an officer’s penis with a hypodermic needle among other assualt and harassment claims filed in a complaint.

Chief Robert Farley, the appointed chief of the North Bergen Police Department as of February 2024, was also accused of retaliating and punishing officials who dared to report him to the New Jersey Attorney General, NJ.com reported.

The five police officers—Special Captain Michael F. Derrin, Detective Michael A. Derrin, Lt. Alex Guzman, Officer Rasheed Siyam, and Officer Christopher Bowen—plan to sue over the police chief’s alleged behavior.

“I’ve never seen anything like this in my life,” Patrick Toscano, the attorney who filed the claims on behalf of the police officers, said NJ.com reported.

The list of complaints detailed a toxic work culture wherein Farley thrived on pranking, insulting, and scaring officers. While some alleged offenses included relatively innocuous gags like applying ink to door handles and setting off car alarms, other more serious allegations include Farley using racial slurs, sending sex toys to an officer’s house, and exposing himself to staffers.

A town spokesperson denied all claims made by the officers in a statement to the Daily Beast.

“The Township of North Bergen has full confidence in Chief Robert Farley’s leadership of the North Bergen Police Department and we strongly deny these false and outrageous allegations made by disgruntled officers who are resorting to attacking the reputation of a dedicated public servant to further their own selfish goals,” the statement read.

They added, “If these claims are advanced in a lawsuit the Township will vigorously defend North Bergen taxpayers against these blatant cash grabs and prove that the allegations are false and defamatory. In order to avoid the appearance of a conflict of interest and because we are fully confident that these claims will be proven false, we have proactively referred them to the Hudson County Prosecutor’s Office for review.”

Meanwhile, officers also claim that Farley’s abusive behavior had been going on for years and has persisted since he was promoted as chief. Prior to this, he served with the department for 26 years, in the footsteps of his father and grandfather, who both served as deputy chiefs.

When Farley, who makes over $228,000 a year based on pension records, first became the department’s head, he made promises that his 123-member department might now call empty.

“I will strive to lead the officers of our department to be an accessible component of our community while maintaining their competency, transparency, and professionalism,” Farley said in the statement at the time.

Special Captain Michael F. Derrin, 59, who was assigned to Farley’s office in 2023 according to court documents, claims that the chief’s demeanor towards him changed in August 2024 despite their friendship.

“Chief Farley chases me around his office,” Derrin wrote in his notice. “After cornering me in the filing area with no further room for retreat, he sticks a hypodermic needle through my jeans into the tip of my penis.” According to Derrin’s account, the needle drew his blood.

But wait, there’s more.

“The chief would shave his body hair on people’s property, their persons, and their food,” Derrin wrote. “He was also fond of scraping fluids from his underwear onto people seated in the chief’s office.” He added that when he tried to complain to the state Attorney General’s Office, a captain called him and fired him.

Derrin’s son, Detective Michael A. Derrin, claims he witnessed Farley unload a fistful of viagra and adderall into the coffee pot, stir it till they dissolved, and then wait for someone to drink a cup. The detective said he stuck to a K-Cup machine out of fear afterwards.

“Chief Farley has, on several occasions, pulled his pants down and defecated on the floor in front of his entire office staff,” Lt. Alex Guzman wrote in his complaint. “He has also left feces on the bathroom floor, apparently with the intent of having someone unknowingly step on it.” He added that the Hudson County chief would also defecate in wastebaskets near the desks of other officers.

Guzman also complained about the emotional distress his family members were subjected to when the police chief sent sex toys, intimate lotions, and gay pride flags to his home.

 

Lol

 

Body camera footage obtained by Kentucky Public Radio shows that as Lt. Caleb Stewart walked closer, the woman yelled, “I might be going into labor, is that okay?”

Her water had broken, she said. “I’m leaking out,” she told him. She grabbed a blanket and a few personal effects as a bright orange city dump truck pulled up to remove the makeshift bed.

The woman had no phone. She said her husband went to call an ambulance, so Stewart called one for her. But as she walked toward the street to wait for help, Stewart yelled at her to stop.

“Am I being detained?” she asked.

“Yes, you’re being detained,” he shouted. “You’re being detained because you’re unlawfully camping.”

Stewart was enforcing a new state law that bans street camping — essentially, a person may not sleep, intend to sleep, or set up camp on undesignated public property like sidewalks or underneath overpasses. He has issued the majority of the citations for unlawful camping in Louisville.

“So I don’t for a second believe that this woman is going into labor,” he said.

He returned to find the woman sitting on the ground, with legs askew and labored breathing, waiting for the ambulance. Stewart hands her a citation, and she balls it up and tosses it aside as the ambulance arrives to take her to the hospital.

“You’re all horrible people,” she said, as she got to her feet. “I’m glad y’all got this job to f*** with the homeless and not help society.”

Later that day she gave birth to her child, according to her attorney, Public Defender Ryan Dischinger. He said both the woman and her son are healthy three months later, and the family is now in shelter without assistance from LMPD or the court system.

“The reality for her, and for anyone who’s homeless in Kentucky, is that they’re constantly and unavoidably breaking this law,” Dischinger said. “What she needed was help and compassion and instead she was met with violence.”

Now, she’s waiting for a late January trial date on her citation, which could carry a fine and requires the people charged with street camping, who are mostly homeless individuals, to appear before a judge.

 

I was running on an unused logging road and came up behind a wild cat. It didn't see me coming, so I got pretty close, maybe 20 feet away. It turned and stared at me for a second and then took off up a steep hill.

It was about 2.5 feet to the top of it's head, a little smaller than a Labrador. It wasn't a bobcat or lynx, because it had a long tail, but I don't think it was long enough to be a mountain lions tail(I don't remember seeing it curled). It had a brown coat and the tail had a stripey bit at the tip. 100% a cat from the body shape and movement.

But after looking it up, it seems like mountain lions basically don't exist in new england, or at least are extremely rare. Its limbs were not as thick as the mountain lion images I'm finding online.

I thought maybe it was one of those megasized housecats, but this trail is separated from town by a deep and wide river, any housecat would have had to walk 3 miles and across 2 bridges(one of which is a metal mesh footbridge) or 7 miles along the logging road to get to the nearest house. It's also below freezing out and there's 5+ inches of snow on the ground.

It's making me feel like I hallucinated this or something, because it doesn't seem possible. Hopefully I'll see it again now that I've looked at a ton of wild cat pictures. I was trying to remember as much detail as possible when I saw it, but I didn't know what to look for.

 
 

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