The problem with “weak” (low-power) poses is they make you look smaller… and feel smaller.
With your arms and elbows brought close to the body, and the shoulders and neck bending down – it practically looks like you're curling up in a shell.
So go against the norm and adopt “strong” (high-power) poses when it comes to using your phone. It takes a good amount of confidence to do… as well as accepting the fact that it'll raise some eyebrows.
Caring about this kind of thing sounds so exhausting.
That seems totally correct to me. Just not in the way they want it to be.