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[–] christian@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

People without empathy shouldn't have the right to lead people (politics, work, ...).

The inclusion of the phrase "have the right to" is what changes this statement from sensible to nonsense. We'd need a way to declare who has that right, and I cannot imagine any idea of an empathy certification board that is not horrifically dystopian.

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm not convinced, could you share your evidence?

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Probably shouldn't assume that guy's personal view is the norm.

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

For me that sounds exactly as appealing as using pineapple.

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago (9 children)

I will excuse a lot of those people here in the US.

In my own case, I am physically disabled at the moment watching the people taking care of me and providing me transportation be horribly overworked to the point where it is painful to watch. What should I be doing with my time? Should I judge my caretakers for not making some sort of time? Is it inexcusable that I am not pressuring them to do something?

I'd like to know actually what I can do, because I'm not happy with where things are. You suggest it's a moral failure but I literally don't know what action I can take that would not be judged a moral failure.

Maybe my situation is unique in some ways, but it's not that unique in the idea that for a lot of people, finding more time could cost the livlihoods of both them and their dependents. Maybe the people you meet in your day-to-day life can easily find time to organize, etc at no significant cost, but the majority of the remaining population are oppressed themselves, just in a less severe way. Every family is isolated, and when you are isolated with a precarious livlihood, setting aside time for something comes at a cost, so is a serious choice. The obvious answer is to try to become less isolated, but that requires setting aside time without guaranteed payoff. It's easy to judge people for not doing that when there's no potential cost to your own dependents.

Most people here are living day-to-day trying to cling to what little joys they have. You can come up with laundry lists of ways they are wasting their time and money, but those wastes are hard to give up for someone living day-to-day. Maybe I'm misunderstanding something, but decrying the inaction from the majority of our population is shifting blame to the powerless.

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago

The last one got me. The ones before were just mildly amusing.

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

You don't have to like it for it to be a valid topping.

That's a hill you will die on from old age. I have never once heard someone say pineapple is not a valid topping in a way I thought was meant to be taken literally and not as a hyperbolic way of saying "I don't like it".

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

How is that true in a way different from other industries? I do think there's no necessity for the race of the VA to correspond with the race of the character. That might be because I don't have a good grasp on the arguments otherwise though.

The argument I've heard in favor of VAs matching their characters is to avoid laundering white perspectives to minority characters, which would make sense if the VA didn't have their livelihood on the line when asked to read from a script written by a cishet white man. I feel like requiring a minority do that makes no difference other than providing a cover of legitimacy for the words said.

But as a cishet white male myself, maybe I'm mischaracterizing the argument, I'd be curious. I have asked my (racial minority) wife at one point a couple years back and she wasn't sure.

It's a given that there are insensitivities in hirings, but I struggle to imagine a way in which that would be unique to voice acting specifically.

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

I generally do try to empathize but I can't even get myself to begin thinking about this. It's like the words hit my brain and bounce off.

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Seeing this late but this is total insanity. Can't find anything more than the six minute highlight video on youtube. I would love to see the final three minutes in full.

Denmark was losing 0-1 with under two and a half minutes left and had to pull their goalie and won in regulation. I guess if it was going to happen maybe it had to happen this way - tight score game where Canada gets way too complacent with their lead and flips from leading to trailing in a very short period without enough clock left to recover. But obviously I did not watch it myself.

In the second period Denmark even believed they scored the game's first goal for a moment, I think the whistle wasn't loud enough. Absolutely should not have been a goal, Sanheim recognized the play was dead and stopped playing, but Binnington and the shooter did not and it's noteworthy because those moments can be demoralizing.

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 44 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

The Gates foundation explicitly lobbied against Oxford's initial plan to open source their covid vaccine. Gates' worship of intellectual propery law is responsible for the patent on the astrazeneca vaccine. The project was initially started under the hope that the third world being able to manufacture their own vaccines without owing royalties would be important in limiting the spread of covid.

[–] christian@lemmy.ml 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't think this is true. If we're talking about enthusiastic democratic voters then I'm not gonna argue, but I think the vast majority of democratic voters are reluctant. It's mostly a body of overworked and exploited people who are coping with their lack of political autonomy by setting aside a bit of time on election days to cast a vote against what they have concluded is the greater evil. It's reasonable to critique that, but it's much more demoralization than it is stupidity.

 

What hockey-isms are you guys partial to?

 

Hey all, this is my original work which I am very proud of. I worked very hard on this and would appreciate receiving praise and constructive criticism.

screenplay:


Open with a scene of a man alone chopping wood on a snowy day. He is large-bodied and looks visually menacing, it should be clear that he is the villian. He sings an eerie and discomforting tune: "Da Da Da Da Da Da Da"

The next sixty or whatever seconds build up a horror movie featuring the aforementioned villain and a hero named John, a boy around 17 years old, as well as a couple friends around the same age who support him. A couple times cut back to the opening woodchopping "Da Da Da Da Da Da Da" scene.

Nearing the end of the trailer, scene with John and his couple friends walking through the city on a snowy day. The townsfolk jeer and yell obscenities at them. John narrates: "Before the incident, we were treated just like anyone else. But now, whenever we go out, the people always shout."

(words flash on the screen, large font)

JOHN

Very brief scene of a terrified scream

JACOB

chop "Da Da Da Da Da Da Da"

JINGLEHEIMER

Frantic sprinting through a snow-covered forest

SCHMIDT

Scene of John in an attic, which is illuminated only by the candle he holds in one hand. With the other hand, John lifts up and examines a dusty old photo of the villain. "Oh my God. His name is my name too." Candle blows out.

(smaller font)

PREMIERES CHRISTMAS EVE

 

Hi all,

I want to try to learn Spanish on my own, right now I barely know anything. Asking in the libre culture community because I know a common answer is duolingo but I don't want to install an app store other than f-droid.

 

Announcer for tonight's caps game said at the start of the game that New Jersey and Washington were the last two teams. Looks like both gave up the first goal tonight (with help from a coach's challenge on the Backstrom goal). Devils play in DC tomorrow at 7:30.

 

Companies don't pay for four-star reviews, but a person giving a four-star review liked the product overall.

 

Hi all,

I haven't instant messaged with strangers in a good bit and I kind of want to relive those days, so giving this another shot.

I made a post here a couple years back and made connections with a couple cool people, but eventually those faded. Trying again now that lemmy is more popular, not sure if this time it will just get swallowed up in the massive sea of posts that are here now.

I'd like to use a messenger that is supported by a FOSS linux client. I still have an XMPP (decentralized messenger) account, so that would be my first choice, but I'd be fine to sign up for matrix, or anything else that I can run easily from a desktop client on linux. To be clear, you don't have to be a linux user yourself, I'm pretty sure pidgin works great for XMPP on windows.

To help you decide whether you should talk to me, I made these lists:

Reasons you should talk to me:

  • You had a good day and want to share that with someone.

  • You had a bad day and want to share that with someone.

  • You want to talk about depression and emotional health with another human being.

  • You want to shoot the shit about listening to music and don't mind when those discussions stray far from the mainstream. (My favorite stuff is neoclassical, metal, and industrial.)

  • You have some tiny amount of comfort with your arch linux setup and want a chance to show off to an arch user who knows even less than you do.

  • You have pokemon violet version, but need a pokemon from scarlet version to complete your pokedex. (I've also played a ton of Yo-Kai 3. Monster taming games in general are my niche.)

  • You're confused as to why every right adjoint preserves all monic arrows, but don't want to sign up for the mathematics stackexchange.

  • You have an interest in computer programming, and are happy to discuss that stuff with a novice. (I need to pick haskell back up, I think I was approaching being good enough to write Hello World.)

  • You follow the NHL and want to emphasize that I should feel bad for rooting for a team currently employing Tom Wilson.

  • You somehow obtained an XMPP messenger account but no one else seems to use it.

  • You think maybe messaging me would help you justify all the time you just wasted on reading this stupid list.

Reasons you should not talk to me:

  • You do not feel you would be satisfied with a platonic-only friendship. (I am happily married.)

  • You are not an adult. (I don't doubt that there are tons of cool teenagers out there, but I would feel like a creep.)

  • You have high standards.

  • You would be upset with the fact that I can be flaky and with me sleeping totally ridiculous hours. (Case in point: It's almost 2AM where I live. Going to bed soon.)

  • Mi Espanol no es bueno, no hablo Espanol. (Want to learn but haven't made progress.)

  • You went through my post history and found that I said something horribly offensive three years ago.

  • Honestly, I'm awkward as shit.

Send me a pm and let's talk!

 

I came up with a science fiction writing prompt/thought experiment that I'd like to share. I'm aware this is a little silly.

Background:

There exists an aether throughout the universe which I am going to suggestively name "soul". Soul can congeal, and congealed soul can take on a multitude of different states. Consciousness is congealed soul, and the states it takes on are emotions. Organisms have evolved to interact with soul, and over time the emotions they are able to evoke have become less rudimentary and increasingly varied.

The prompt/thought experiment:

A utilitarian mad scientist designs blueprints for a soul virus, which causes the aether permeating everything to congeal and then permanently crystallize in a joyful state. It will spread and eventually unify all consciousness into one. This leads to the question of whether universal bliss is worth the price of a total loss of individuality.

 

Anyone remember how Trump started Space Force? I was on Space Force, and I got sent to the moon. We were called Moon Force, and there was only one other soldier there on the moon with me.

Back home on Earth, I wanted to mail her a card, so I looked in the card aisle for cards related to Moon Force. They only had one relevant card, it said "Don't Moon Force me to go". I thought it was funny so I got it for her and mailed it.

 

I'm just going to type out the full story rather than being vague.

We have a girl named Oceanborn, a black cat who never grew up - she has looked like an eight-month-old kitten for years.

When we got Oceanborn, she was five or six months old. She was a little shy but we could play with her and pick her up okay. Shortly after getting her, she got a very nasty eye infection that required a course of antibiotic drops. It became clear pretty quickly that she really did not like the drops, and giving them to her became a task for two people. We felt that it would be a bad idea to stop the antibiotics early, so we finished the course.

It was clearly traumatic for her, and I still feel awful about it today. She became terrified of us. At that point I felt it would be best to give her space. I was really hoping that time would heal that wound, but it's been about four years now and there's only been tiny bits of progress. She will let us pet her, but on her own terms - if I approach her she will likely run. I haven't had much luck with using foods to get her to warm up to me. She is okay being out and about when we are home, but if there is a visitor she will hide for hours.

She lives with another cat friend who is very social and full of energy, but she only interacts with him occasionally.

I'm honestly not even sure if I should be trying to get her to open up or not, but it really eats at me so I'm reaching out for suggestions. I want her to be the cat she could have been without the trauma, but maybe that's being selfish and she is who she is? I think I need an outside perspective because it's too emotional for me.

 

Synopsis: Our hero John ventures into an attic, where he finds a dusty old photo of the villain. “Oh my god”, John exclaims. “His name is my name too.”

 

I was burned out on math for a very long while after failing out of my phd, just now starting to get back into it. This paper is not something a professional mathematician would take seriously, but I'm really happy with it still and wanted to share.

 

What I'm looking for:

I'm offering to be a friend to chat with occasionally over XMPP messenger. Platonic only because I am happily married, and I'd rather not chat with anyone under 18 just because I would feel like a creep.

My interests:

I love listening to music, but more often weirder music like neoclassical, industrial, and various subgenres of extreme metal.

In general I try to support libre software, but I'm not perfect with it and definitely make exceptions for games. I especially like pokemon and other monster-collecting games. I want to learn to program but haven't gotten any deeper than what's necessary to do the first fifty or so project euler programs in haskell.

I was abd in mathematics, and my qualifiers were in category theory and algebraic topology. I got burnt out for a while but I'm starting to enjoy math again now that I'm not under pressure to perform.

I follow the NHL. Since the playoffs in 1998 I was watching Capitals games every once in a while, but about ten years ago I started watching them religiously and still am.

Politically I identify as pretty far left, but I don't have good knowledge of theory.

About me:

Honestly, I can be very flaky and I know I might not be the ideal friend. Things have been hard lately. I am unemployed and have been very sick with post-covid symptoms since my recovery end of March. Still, if anyone wants to talk I would be happy to.

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