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[–] grysbok 10 points 1 day ago

My shower wand has a water-flow-powered led in it. It changes color depending on the temperature. It came in clutch when I needed a shower in my windowless bathroom during a power outage.

A year later the light died, but it's still a shower wand. I think it was $20.

[–] grysbok 18 points 1 day ago

Seriously. We don't even know how old the poster is, just that their dad is 48.

I was 20 when my dad was 48. I was in college and was only 'home' over the summers and winter break (when the dorms closed). My brother was 15. I don't think it'd be reasonable to tell either of us to move out just because the adults in our lives were a tad indiscrete.

[–] grysbok 25 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Agreed. I wouldn't interrupt their fun, but I'd mention it to my dad some time when the girlfriend wasn't around. I'd send an email or text if I felt too embarrassed/shy to say anything face-to-face. "Hey, Dad. Just FYI the walls are really thin in this apartment and I can hear what you two get up to."

I'd also look into earplugs. Earplugs + bone conductive headphones could be a good work around. I'm a fan of Shokz, but other brands exist.

[–] grysbok 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My impression at the time was the superintendent acted on his own. Not even the board of education was involved, and they weren't happy to be blindsided.

My guess is the

  1. superintendent had a student in that grade,
  2. student came home with new textbook,
  3. superintendent saw the 'blasphemy' in the new-that-year textbooks,
  4. superintendent was his own Karen.
[–] grysbok 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

Western Kentucky in the 90s. . There was a ton of weird stuff at that public school. I went far away for college and am glad for it.

Edit: Better link/source

[–] grysbok 19 points 2 days ago

I wish autism was a "get out of taxes free" card.

Walks up to checkout counter. 7% sales tax? I think not, my good computerized checkout clerk. I have the autism.

[–] grysbok 5 points 2 days ago (2 children)

The thing that got me to significantly reduce my dairy consumption was

  1. Being exposed to vegetable milk (first soy then almond) by my roommates
  2. Not keeping fresh milk in the apartment because it kept going bad
  3. Losing the ability to gracefully digest lactose

I eat much less cow now because of cute internet cow videos.

Anyways, I think if 5 people reduce their consumption by 30% that's more impactful than 1 person reducing their consumption by 100%. (Math caveat: assuming each person has the same baseline level of consumption. 5 vegans reducing their consumption by 30% won't do squat).

[–] grysbok 17 points 2 days ago

As an academic, it's a tad heartening to see institutions not rolling over.

My college talks a good talk but hasn't been tested yet.

[–] grysbok 2 points 2 days ago (5 children)

In middle school our new science textbooks were recalled the first week of school. The textbooks discussed (horrors!) the big bang theory without also talking about the theistic theory. The books were returned with those pages rubber cemented together. The teachers were upset (upset enough that middle-school me noticed), but it was by order of the superintendent.

My parents got me a copy of A Brief History of Time in response. Also, rubber cement is fairly easy to pry apart.

[–] grysbok 2 points 2 days ago

I think you're saying that we/I in the USA still see/have the trappings of normalcy: ads for BB&B, our Amazon packages are still delivered, we still have our treats.

Y'all outside of the USA don't care about our treats. Y'all's news is showing all the human rights erosions and ignoring that I got new prescription glasses by mail just 2 business days after ordering them (what a successful and stable country this must be/s!).

(sidenote, maybe prescription glasses aren't treats, but I'm very excited because my prescription has changed and maybe I will stop with these eye strain headaches)

[–] grysbok 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

My partner almost always has a shawl tied around his waist, like a sash or belt. For him it's a comfort object that can convert to shield him from the sun or cold. For me it's a warm thing I can borrow that smells like him.

Anyways, he's genderqueer sometimes, if that helps. And no one's ever given him guff about his shawls that I know of. (Edit: I guess he might be called genderfluid, but he's not very into labels, but wouldn't mind me labeling him to strangers he'll never meet)

[–] grysbok 1 points 3 days ago

I don't blame you for wanting to move. My partner and I are straight-passing, cis-passing, white folk in a blue state. We're thinking of leaving the country. (Well, I am. My partner's kind of like yours--not convinced we're in danger.)

You're much more visibly "other" than we are. One thought I've seen floated around is that options are good. If you can claim an international citizenship/passport (through, I dunno, Irish parents or something) it's worth doing.

 

Is there a good community to request advice on consumer goods? I'm in the market for a new vacuum cleaner. I'm also in the USA.

The old one is a 20-year-old Dyson and it's fine, just a tad loud and the plug gets warmer than I'd like. Good suckage.

I'm distrustful of online review sites because they all sound like paid vacuum cleaner salesfolk.

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recommended dashcams? (self.asklemmy)
submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by grysbok to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
 

Anyone have a dashcam they really like?

  • I don't care about screens
  • I'd like something I could mount to my dash
  • I'd like something that can record audio

I was trapped in my car recently and berated by a neighbor, so I mostly want something I can use to record that sort of behavior in the future. Otherwise, it's just he said/she said.

Thanks!

Edit: I ended up with a VIOFO VS1 Mini. I installed it last night and so far so good. The only annoyance was that my EZ-Pass(toll road transponder) was already mounted right where I wanted my camera, so that had to move. Also, I still need to pretty up my wiring. I'm feeling a bit more confident driving in the neighborhood. And I checked, can download video with the app no problem.

 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.sdf.org/post/27891382

My social media environment (mostly Lemmy for the last year, after I left Reddit) is very leftist. I'm finding myself floating more and more left because y'all have a point and there's not many counter-arguments in this social media environment. I sometimes wonder if that's how MAGA folks feel--floating more and more right because that's what they're surrounded by.

Of course, my floating is (naturally /s) based on reason and leftists making good memes/arguments.

Anyways, that's this morning's introspection.

Side showerthought: my convictions are based on memes. Anyone have nice, accessible resources for giving those convictions a more solid base? I'd love something like a graphic history of leftist thought (similar to Queer: A Graphic History). Something approachable but with citations. Thanks :)

 

My social media environment (mostly Lemmy for the last year, after I left Reddit) is very leftist. I'm finding myself floating more and more left because y'all have a point and there's not many counter-arguments in this social media environment. I sometimes wonder if that's how MAGA folks feel--floating more and more right because that's what they're surrounded by.

Of course, my floating is (naturally /s) based on reason and leftists making good memes/arguments.

Anyways, that's this morning's introspection.

Side showerthought: my convictions are based on memes. Anyone have nice, accessible resources for giving those convictions a more solid base? I'd love something like a graphic history of leftist thought (similar to Queer: A Graphic History). Something approachable but with citations. Thanks :)

 

I have a one-shot LARP coming up in a few months and the character I was given dresses sort of punk/metal, with some flexibility. Character is supposed to be physically imposing.

Anyone have pointers on where to start? I have a kickass modern black kilt with purple tartan kickpleats, which I think I'll use as a foundation. What can I add on?

I'm thinking ear cuffs, a torn, vintage band t-shirt, and a denim jacket. Chunky black boots if I can find any that don't use natural rubber in their soles or adhesive :p .

Limitations: I don't have any piercings or tattoos, and I'm not getting them for this role. I'm allergic to latex, gold, and nickel. I don't want to spend too much on something I won't use again. Hair is currently shoulder length. I am a white non-binary millennial, but the character is of unset gender.

I'm also interested in store suggestions, especially for non-pierced ear and face jewelry. I'm drowned in options and I don't know which are honest about their materials. I'm in the United States.

 

My friend (let's call him Liam) doesn't want to hear about people being hurt or murdered. I'm trying to figure out why being told about this boundary hurts. I see my therapist on Monday, for my regularly scheduled session. So, this is me thinking out loud and trying to process my feelings. It's 2 am here on the East Coast, please pardon my insomniac rambling.

My friend now lives outside the US, but grew up here. We were college roommates.

  • Maybe I'm jealous that he is comfortable enough that he doesn't have to work, can travel, and has socialized medicine. He hasn't fought with his health insurance to pay for needed procedures.

  • Maybe I'm upset that his boundary means I can't share large swatches of my life with him. I can't talk with Liam about my health insurance issues because that's too close to violence for me to feel confident I'm not overstepping. I can't talk about my dad because my dad died through my mom's actions. I can't talk about politics because American politics today seems to be about hurting people you don't like. I can't talk about my worries for the future.

  • Maybe I'm upset because his boundary is so broad and vague but also clear enough that I can't ask him for clarification about it without violating it. Is social murder murder to him? I dunno!

  • Maybe I'm upset because it's almost the 4-year anniversary of my dad's death and it's easier to be upset at my friend's confusing boundary than it is to confront the fact my dad's still dead. TBH, this feels pretty solid, based on the amount of tears I'm producing. Circling back, I sure would like to be able to talk with Liam about this, but nope.

 
 

I started it to keep my hands occupied during a class. I love the simple 2-color pattern. I picked the kit up from Stitched Modern.

 

I'd been using the Joey app to keep tabs on a few subreddits I'm fond of. It finally stopped working today.

 

So, I've never been to a pawn shop before. I'm curious what's there, but TV makes them seem shady and odd. What should I know before I visit? I'm sort of expecting a cross between an antique and a thrift store, that sort of vibe.

I'm in the USA and don't intend to pawn anything.

 

Woodblock print of a grumpy-faced man in a tunic shoving a lion in the face. The lion's head is turned towards the viewer and he has a goofy look on his face. His tail is held high. The man holds a club in his left hand. Surrounding the lion and man is a tree, an embankment, and foliage.

Found at: The British Museum

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