inTheShadowOf

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[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 8 points 6 days ago

At least I have gaming.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

::: spoiler spoiler There are lot of reasons the world gives us to hate being trans, I think even the most principled trans positive person is bound to feel it sometimes. I'm sorry it's been so difficult heart-sickle

Being stealth for whatever the reason is fine, but maybe it doesn't all have to be hate and shame. Easier said than done, of course, but I think any trans person you've shown kindness to would want you to feel some of that kindness and understanding as well.

To whatever the future brings!

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I guess I'm also worried that dating another trans person would make my dysphoria even worse, maybe it's irrational idk😵‍💫

Can I ask why you think that would be the case? A transmasc person's transition is quite different from yours.

In my experience, t4t relationships haven't just been eliminating the initial transphobia worry, but they also provide an understanding that I don't think cis people will really have (through no fault of their own)

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (6 children)

With cis people definitely, but t4t can make that less miserable

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Looks like it was removed thankfully, but yikes. Feels like that account should be banned too.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Going from "the new BCNR song is boring" to "okay, yeah, it's pretty good" when I notice it's gay.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 29 points 1 week ago (7 children)

And what if a cis woman wants to put she/her in (cw: pronoun 😱) her email signature??

This defending women thing really seems to be restricting women.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago

We're strangers, don't talk to me like that.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I think time limits are interesting.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Clothes are fun. They should be free for trans people for the first few years of transition.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Please remove me from the list. Too much to balance and keep up the pace

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