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After more than three years of staying in America, Frida started wanting to go back to Mexico desperately. But her husband, Diego Rivera, was enjoying the fame and popularity he got from this country and didn't want to go back. This painting is the result of this conflict. Frida Kahlo was trying to depict the superficiality of American capitalism. This painting is filled with the icons of the modern industrial society of the United States but implied that society is decaying and the fundamental human values are destructed. In contrast to this painting, her husband Diego Rivera was working on a mural in the Rockefeller Center to prove his approval of the industrial progress in America.

Not like her other paintings with her face always shows up, this painting is missing the focal point of Frida Kahlo. She only draws her dresses hanging there empty and alone with the chaos in the background. It seems she was saying "I may be in America but only my dress hangs there my life is in Mexico."

Frida began this painting while still in New York and completed it after she and Diego came back to Mexico. She marked this painting on the back in chalk and included the engraving: "I painted this in New York when Diego was painting the mural in Rockefeller Center".

The painting was given to Frida's trusted medicinal consultant Dr. Leo Eloesser of San Francisco. At the point when Dr. Eloesser passed on in 1976, he willed the painting to his long time friend Joyce Campbell. In 1993, Campbell sold the painting only before there was a booming market for Kahlo's works.

https://www.fridakahlo.org/my-dress-hangs-there.jsp

Biography of Frida Kahlo

Considered one of Mexico's greatest artists, Frida Kahlo was born on July 6, 1907 in Coyocoan, Mexico City, Mexico. She grew up in the family's home where was later referred to as the Blue House or Casa Azul. Her father is a German descendant and photographer. He immigrated to Mexico where he met and married her mother Matilde. Her mother is half Amerindian and half Spanish. Frida Kahlo has two older sisters and one younger sister.

Frida Kahlo has poor health in her childhood. She contracted polio at the age of 6 and had to be bedridden for nine months. This disease caused her right leg and foot to grow much thinner than her left one. She limped after she recovered from polio. She has been wearing long skirts to cover that for the rest of her life. Her father encouraged her to do lots of sports to help her recover. She played soccer, went swimming, and even did wrestle, which is very unusual at that time for a girl. She has kept a very close relationship with her father for her whole life.

Frida Kahlo attended the renowned National Preparatory School in Mexico City in the year of 1922. There are only thirty-five female students enrolled in that school and she soon became famous for her outspokenness and bravery. At this school she first met the famous Mexican muralist Diego Rivera for the first time. Rivera at that time was working on a mural called The Creation on the school campus. Frida often watched it and she told a friend she will marry him someday.

In the same year, Kahlo joined a gang of students who shared similar political and intellectual views. She fell in love with the leader Alejandro Gomez Arias. On a September afternoon when she traveled with Gomez Arias on a bus the tragic accident happened. The bus collided with a streetcar and Frida Kahlo was seriously injured. A steel handrail impaled her through the hip. Her spine and pelvis are fractured and this accident left her in a great deal of pain, both physically and physiologically.

She was injured so badly and had to stay in the Red Cross Hospital in Mexico City for several weeks. After that, she returned home for further recovery. She had to wear full-body cast for three months. To kill the time and alleviate the pain, she started painting and finished her first self-portrait the following year. Frida Kahlo once said,

I paint myself because I am often alone and I am the subject I know best".

Her parents encouraged her to paint and made a special easel made for her so she could paint in bed. They also gave her brushes and boxes of paints.

Frida Kahlo reconnected with Rivera in 1928. She asked him to evaluate her work and he encouraged her. The two soon started the romantic relationship. Despite her mother's objection, Frida and Diego Rivera got married in the next year. During their earlier years as a married couple, Frida had to move a lot based on Diego's work. In 1930, they lived in San Francisco, California. Then they moved to New York City for Rivera's artwork show at Museum of Modern Art. They later moved to Detroit while Diego Rivera worked for Detroit Institute of Arts.

In 1932, Kahlo added more realistic and surrealistic components in her painting style. In the painting titled Henry Ford Hospital(1932), Frida Kahlo lied on a hospital bed naked and was surrounded with a few things floating around, which includes a fetus, a flower, a pelvis, a snail, all connected by veins. This painting was an expression of her feelings about her second miscarriage. It is as personal as her other self-portraits.

In 1933, Kahlo was living in New York City with her husband Diego Rivera. Rivera was commissioned by Nelson Rockefeller to create a mural named as Man at the Crossroads at Rockefeller Center. Rivera tried to include Vladimir Lenin in the painting, who is a communist leader. Rockefeller stopped his work and that part was painted over. The couple had to move back to Mexico after this incident. They returned and live in San Angel, Mexico.

Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera's marriage is not a usual one. They had been keeping separate homes and studios for all those years. Diego had so many affairs and one of that was with Kahlo's sister Cristina. Frida Kahlo was so sad and she cut off her long hair to show her desperation to the betrayal. She has longed for children but she cannot bear one due to the bus accident. She was heartbroken when she experienced a second miscarriage in 1934. Kahlo and Rivera have been separated a few times but they always went back together. In 1937 they helped Leon Trotsky and his wife Natalia. Leon Trotsky is an exiled communist and rival of Soviet leader Joseph Stalin. Kahlo and Rivera welcomed the couple together and let them stay at her Blue House. Kahlo also had a brief affair with Leon Trotsky when the couple stayed at her house.

In 1938, Frida Kahlo became a friend of André Breton, who is one of the primary figures of the Surrealism movement. Frida said she never considered herself as a Surrealist "until André Breton came to Mexico and told me I was one." She also wrote, "Really I do not know whether my paintings are surrealist or not, but I do know that they are the frankest expression of myself". "Since my subjects have always been my sensations, my states of mind and the profound reactions that life has been producing in me, I have frequently objectified all this in figures of myself, which were the most sincere and real thing that I could do in order to express what I felt inside and outside of myself."

In the same year, she had an exhibition at New York City gallery. She sold some of her paintings and got two commissions. One of that is from Clare Boothe Luce to paint her friend Dorothy Hale who committed suicide. She painted The Suicide of Dorothy Hale (1939), which tells the story of Dorothy's tragic leap. The patron Luce was horrified and almost destroyed this painting.

The next year, 1939, Kahlo was invited by André Breton and went to Paris. Her works are exhibited there and she is befriended with artists such as Marc Chagall, Piet Mondrian, and Pablo Picasso. She and Rivera got divorced that year and she painted one of her most famous paintings, The Two Fridas(1939).

But soon Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera remarried in 1940. The second marriage is about the same as the first one. They still keep separate lives and houses. Both of them had infidelities with other people during the marriage. Kahlo received a commission from the Mexican government for five portraits of important Mexican women in 1941, but she was unable to finish the project. She lost her beloved father that year and continued to suffer from chronic health problems. Despite her personal challenges, her work continued to grow in popularity and was included in numerous group shows around this time.

In the year of 1944, Frida Kahlo painted one of her most famous portraits, The Broken Column. In this painting, she depicted herself naked and split down the middle. Her spine is shattered like a column. She wears a surgical brace and there are nails all through her body, which is the indication of the consistent pain she went through. In this painting, Frida expressed her physical challenges through her art. During that time, she had a few surgeries and had to wear special corsets to protect her back spine. She seeks lots of medical treatment for her chronic pain but nothing really worked.

Her health condition has been worsening in 1950. That year she was diagnosed with gangrene in her right foot. She became bedridden for the next nine month and had to stay in hospital and had several surgeries. But with great persistence, Frida Kahlo continued to work and paint. In the year of 1953, she had a solo exhibition in Mexican. Although she had limited mobility at that time, she showed up on the exhibition's opening ceremony. She arrived by ambulance, and welcomed the attendees, celebrated the ceremony in a bed the gallery set up for her. A few months later, she had to accept another surgery. Part of her right leg got amputated.

With the poor physical condition, she is also deeply depressed. She even had an inclination for suicide. Frida Kahlo has been out and in hospital during that year. But despite her health issues, she has been active with the political movement. She showed up at the demonstration against US-backed overthrow of President Jacobo Arbenz of Guatemala on July 2. This is her last public appearance. About one week after her 47th birthday, Frida Kahlo passed away at her beloved Bule House.

https://www.fridakahlo.org/frida-kahlo-biography.jsp


Self Portrait, Dedicated to Dr Eloesser, 1940 by Frida Kahlo

CW Blood

Christian imagery, especially the theatrically bloody martyrdoms that hang in Mexican churches, pervades Frida's iconography. Her house in Coyoacan displays a particularly gruesome Road to Calvary, in which the overemphasis on Christ's wounds seizes the spectator on the most primitive physical level. This bloodiness and self-mortification hark back to preconquest times, when the Aztecs tore out human hearts and punctured their own skins to ensure life's continuance. But it was Spanish Catholicism that brought to Mexico the depiction of pain in veristic and human terms, creating images so real and so frightening that the Indians could not help but be awestruck and, of course, converted. Borrowing the rhetoric of Catholicism, Frida used the same combination of pain and realism to attract devotees to her cause.

In another 1940 Self Portrait, Dedicated to Dr Eloesser Frida's necklace of thorns is just a single strand, but it draws even more blood. In the background, leafless broken-off twigs profiled against an opalescent sky look like the dead twigs woven into Frida's necklace in the self-portrait with the hummingbird. No doubt the dry white buds that mingle with the twigs (and that droop from Frida's headdress as well) likewise refer to her desolation. Although Frida has flowers in her hair and wears the earrings in the shape of hands that Picasso gave her when she was in Paris, she looks like someone dressed for a ball for which she has no escort.

Frida's work from the year in which she and Diego Rivera were separated demonstrates a heightened awareness of color's capacity to drive home emotional truths. As a self-taught artist, she began with a highly personal and unorthodox feeling for color. Her palette came out of her love for the startling combinations of bougainvillea pinks, purples, and yellows seen in the decorative arts of Mexico. She chose colors the way she chose her clothes - with exquisite aesthetic calculation. In such early works as Henry Ford Hospital, pastels create an ironic disjunction with the painful subject matter. In later paintings the choice of colors is just as odd and often even more dissonant and complex. The soft, pearly sky and the bright flowers in the Eloesser Self-Portrait, for example, only accentuate the chill of Frida's predicament. Their richness recalls the way statues of the scourged Christ in Mexican churches are often surrounded by flowers, lace, velvet, and gold.

https://www.fridakahlo.org/self-portrait-dedicated-to-dr-eloesser.jsp


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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 5 points 2 hours ago

Well, attempting to use Paypal to order E via crypto failed. It looks like there is some sort of automatic hold on the account, and from what I could gathered it can't be lifted in any rational fashion. So, ended up losing $10 selling over transaction fees and market fluctuations, and I'll need to figure out a different wallet solution.

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Wait, why hasn't any totransitarian regime implemented forced feminization/masculinization camps

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)
[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

cissoids manufacturing shortages again :(

china produces enough E to feminize the entire world several times over

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 2 points 2 hours ago

Mr. Xi is helping me find my ~~gun~~ titty skittles.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 7 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

I may have gone overboard buying cute girl hats, but the logic I have is that's my head is the one part of my body estrogen won't really change. So I can invest now.

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 1 hour ago

Depends, did you get a beret? If no, you don't have enough cute girl hats yet

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 4 points 2 hours ago

gone overboard buying cute girl hats

No such thing.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

sexI genuinely have no idea where the line between "yea that's a bit crude" and me just being a sex negative prude is :cheems: idk wish I was more comfortable with it as a topic but I literally have no idea where the lines are supposed to be.

For context I was talking with a cis (?) woman who said she wishes she could hit a magic button and get a dick so she could fuck a girl with it. And like idk, it made me feel a bit uncomfortable, and I feel like that's how I feel every time someone talks about it, and and I wish that wasn't the case but also I'm not sure what I'm "supposed" to be comfortable with.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 4 points 5 hours ago

spoilerYou might be feeling dysphoric in that case more than prudish, but also you might just not wanna tall about sex as much or as in detail. Which is 100% fine lol. Might be a topic you only wanna share with a handful or even just one person (a partner or spouse probably) - or no one, although you've talked about wanting a partner of some kind so presumably you gotta address it with someone at least once

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 7 points 8 hours ago

Prudes unite doggirl-hi

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 16 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

transphobiaMy dad told me being trans was a sin and when I asked what was wrong about it he said it's cause of the harm it can cause to myself and when I asked what kind of harm that is he told me that people are gonna treat me bad because of it.

So let me get this straight. It's a sin for me to be trans because other people can be transphobic? That's so fucking rich coming from someone who drove 3 hours out of his way to meet me in person and tell me he's rarely ever 100% confident about anything but he's 100% confident I'm not a woman and that calling me by my FUCKING NAME would be feeding a delusion.

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 13 points 18 hours ago

Being trans is hands down the best thing that's ever happened to me. But holy fuck I'm so sick of other people

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 18 hours ago

spoilerI love when religious people work backwards from their conclusion. Clearly nothing even based in his book, just vibes. I'm sorry you have to deal with him cat-trans

[–] CrookedSerpent@hexbear.net 3 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Streetlights cast shadows to obscure

Flashed smiles, averted eyes, practiced laughter

All shadows in the night

Armor for our hearts

In a glade we found solitude

Rain giving way to the gentle light of dusk

Rending our armor of shadow

Our hearts, now exposed to pain and love

In equal measure

[–] buh@hexbear.net 8 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (2 children)

Anyone else feel most comfortable cross legged on the floor? Of course lying down on a bed is the truly most comfortable, but when doing computer stuff I like being on the floor with my laptop also on the floor. It’s better than sitting on a chair.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Sitting in my desk chair cross legged lol

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 12 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

we sit like L from death note most of the time x3 dunno it has just become a comfortable position for us (tho less so recently as our disabilities have gotten worse)

example image :p

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 6 points 5 hours ago

Bisexual sitting icon

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Thinking of painting my nails again during lulls in class, seeing dudes go wide eye at me like I have superpowers is I'll admit a lot of fun. The painting is for me but this is just an added bonus ngl idk I just really like being a weirdo

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 5 points 15 hours ago
[–] buh@hexbear.net 8 points 16 hours ago

My favorite thing about women’s clothing is that instead of being shamed for being short, I get to be 𝓅𝑒𝓉𝒾𝓉𝑒

[–] Tuplinisandino@hexbear.net 9 points 17 hours ago (4 children)

I was heating up some soup and then my wife snatched my gun off of my hip and then aimed it at me shouting “freeze” so I stared at her for a while and told her it wasn’t funny and pretty dangerous because the way she snatched it if the safety wasn’t on could’ve shot any one of us. She said “you’re no fucking fun” and then chucked it on the countertop and then slumped down on the couch.

After I finished cooking I said “I just think what you did was a bit silly wouldn’t you agree?” And she said nothing. I tried bringing up the election but then she says “don’t try to persuade me into having conversation with you” so I just sat and tried to finish my soup but I wasn’t feeling hungry. I don’t get hungry anymore I’m just always feeling sick because I genuinely feel like I’m in a loveless marriage.

[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 1 points 2 hours ago

Sometimes I forget that Americans actually just have guns.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 5 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Is this a bit? Why are you wearing a gun in the house and cooking

[–] mendiCAN@hexbear.net 1 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

comedy truly is subjective huh? i don't get it either. "random" humor and bit accts just make me sigh (/u/Civility excepted ofc).

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 17 hours ago

wtf is wrong with her

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 9 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

I'm nearing a year into transition and I'm just now thinking about middle names haha

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 6 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I have a gender neutral first name, so my legal name change was just dropping boy middle names, I didn't add anything because a bunch of my documents didn't have those middle names anyway.

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 5 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Oh that's soooo cool. I love that

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 5 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I actually didn't like my name growing up, because people would go "isn't that a girl name?"

So I kind of grew into it.

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 4 points 14 hours ago

Omg your name got redemption that's so sweet 😭

[–] buh@hexbear.net 3 points 16 hours ago

Go without one like Bernie bern-disgust

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 3 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I've been trying to come up with a middle name since I figured out my first (didn't take long) and have made literally no progress on it kitty-cri-potato

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 3 points 16 hours ago

Yeah it didn't take me long at all to figure out the first name. It quite literally came to me in a dream and I went with it lmao. But yeah middle names are hard

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 10 points 18 hours ago

Why couldn't I have gotten better parents

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 5 points 18 hours ago

In other news I heard a woman for the first time while voice training yesterday. It kinda flabbergasted me. I'm still absolutely shocked that I was capable of producing anything close to what I heard with my own voice

[–] Disaster_of_Passion@hexbear.net 6 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

a blessed yuri day to all who celebrate hexbear-lesbian

[–] onandrah1@hexbear.net 8 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Hey comrades 💜 We were attacked in the camp for being trans ...two of my sisters were hurt, and our shelters were burned. We’re now in a hospital that gave us just a few days to pay or they’ll call the police.

We’ve raised $533 out of $1500 so far thank you to everyone who’s helped. Truly, you’re keeping us going.

If you feel okay reading or sharing, the link’s in my profile. No pressure even just seeing us means a lot. 🙏🏿🏳️‍⚧️

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 5 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

It’s shameful for hospitals to treat patients in such a way

[–] onandrah1@hexbear.net 5 points 20 hours ago

Thank you, truly 💔. My sisters Pretty and Malaika were attacked with machetes their injuries are serious and they’re still in the hospital. The only place that treated them is now threatening to call the police if we can’t pay.

We’ve raised $533 out of $1500. If you can help keep our story seen or shared, it means everything.

[–] musicenjoyer@hexbear.net 4 points 18 hours ago

Read the entirety of Gender Outlaw dancing-roach . cw discussion of dysphoria and medical gatekeeping

spoiler_this week going good then I remember my period is Friday. will feel like shit, wanting to rip my uterus out .am glad I ordered T online , i won't have to be on a waitlist

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Cis people thinking they know better then me, and being transphobic, and all of that shit is making me crash out so hard this morning. I can't cope with this in a healthy way. Fuck them. Even the best most caring, whatever etc normally good people do this. I hate them. I hate forever being surrounded by them my whole fucking life.

Cis people will literally tell you diy is bad and you need to go to the doctor while telling you they do coke and molly. "oh no I don't know anything about trans stuff" then stfu and help me you stupid fucking ********.

Feel like I'm losing my mind I literally can't deal with ts. Why are people so fucking stupid and horrible?

aren't you overreacting

No not really, this isn't just about another person not helping me either. Sick to death of cis people.

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 6 points 23 hours ago

idk how you convince them, it's frustrating.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago

tfw cis people

kiryu-slam disgost angery rage-cry peppino-shotgun

[–] wombat@hexbear.net 4 points 20 hours ago

it is june 25 and stalin saved the world from fascism

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