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I finally got around to seeing "I Saw The TV Glow", and it definitely lived up to the hype.


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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (2 children)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

GayTuckerCarlson* (6/23 - 6/29)
Eco* (6/30 - 7/6)
Disaster_of_Passion (7/7 - 7/13)
sodium_nitride (7/14 - 7/20)
peanutbuttercupola* (7/21 - 7/27)
BountifulEggnog* (7/28 - 8/3)    
oscardejarjayes* (8/4 - 8/10)
Seryph (8/11 - 8/17)

โ€‹ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 8 points 5 hours ago

Fantastic. I managed to get 5 whole hours of sleep today instead of the usual 4.

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 6 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

People say that this is nice weather. Uh, no it isn't!

My sunscreen is melting off my face! Walking round's got me sweating like I just did a workout!

One of the cool side effects of switching to E is I sweat a ton less than I used to. Used to be the sweatiest person in my friend group and now I think I'm the least. Still, summer weather is the worst (where I live at least).

[โ€“] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 7 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

does estrogen make beans tastier? kinda feels like it

[โ€“] awth13@hexbear.net 5 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Who is willing to sacrifice a vial by submerging a bean in it to test?

[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 13 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

My therapist has been encouraging me to go to some kind of mtf support group. I've become progressively more agreeable to that idea, if only because I might get some honest opinions on if it's truly joever for me looks wise. In all the photos I've taken recently my face feels too broad. Maybe it's just the camera...

[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 15 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I might get some honest opinions on if it's truly joever for me looks wise.

As if any transfemme is gonna tell you, "yeah, no, it's never gonna work for you" lol

[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 1 points 33 minutes ago

Yeah prob not. But I am in desperate need of near phrenological levels of cranial analysis to determine what to do with this face of mine

[โ€“] musicenjoyer@hexbear.net 16 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

gender cw : dysphoria, discussion of essentialism

spoilerI don't have a gender , I used to identify as transmasc but don't relate to masculinity so I think agender is right. Don't like being perceived as or being a woman but wouldn't like being a man either. I hate the 'born this way' narrative, we shouldn't have to justify why we're trans. I feel a lot of research about gender being "hardwired" just reinforces bio essentialism under the name of 'acceptance' , it's always agab language and treating sex as an absolute truth. i didn't fully realize everything until recently , like I said earlier trans people don't need justification for why they exist.

[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 12 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

spoilerYeah, anytime people bring up the "actually, trans brainwaves are more in line with their preferred gender than their assigned one ๐Ÿค“"

I'm like... Stfu? Who fucking cares what my brainwaves look like? That data cannot be used for good.

[โ€“] awth13@hexbear.net 10 points 6 hours ago

spoilerI've been training my brainwaves so that, if they ever get scanned, this is what shows up.

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 15 hours ago

I'm surprised I haven't seen any wild takes from conservatives or pro-Russia nazbols about Iran's (nuanced) trans rights, during this conflict. lathe-of-heaven

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

Buy cute hat online, ships same day, arrives next, doesn't fit.

Order correct size. 1 week radio silence. Argh!

[โ€“] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 6 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

order several sizes and return the ones that dont fit

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 5 points 7 hours ago

Actually did that on the follow up

[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 14 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

Finally out of that mixed shampoo conditioner that I was using for the past year, time to start my haircare era. Did a decent amount of research on what's good for silky straight hair and I'm hopeful that it'll help me have more consistently nice hair instead of always jumping between overly oily from too much conditioner and overly dirty from not enough shampoo

[โ€“] HexaSnoot@hexbear.net 6 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (2 children)

With straight hair, people's scalps typically don't need conditioner. Conditioner directly on the scalp can make hair oilier. If it itches without conditioner it's typically because it's used to having moisturizer added to it. If you don't condition the scalp for maybe a month your scalp could possibly return to normal self produced moisture.

My hair isn't as oily anymore now that I don't add extra conditioner to it. Right now I use a 2-in-1 shampoo and conditioner because that's what I have available. But before this, I had plain shampoo of the same exact brand, and my hair was least oily. It lasted a whole day longer unwashed.

[โ€“] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 4 points 4 hours ago

You shouldnโ€™t be using conditioner on the scalp at all I feel like

[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 15 hours ago

That's the plan! I did pick up a conditioner too but I'm not putting it anywhere close to my scalp. My hair's always been naturally pretty oily so the mixed I was using made it sooo bad

[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Also istg why does every person in every store I go to recognise me now this never used to be the case. Is it just that I go to these places more often or is it that my style is so distinctive everyone remembers it. It's probably the first but I'm gonna pretend it's the second.

[โ€“] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 9 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Uhhh... your style is VERY distinctive. I pretty much never see anyone wearing the kind of fancy dresses that you are wearing.

[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Okay in my defense I do not go out every day in my lolitas. Only once a month.

~~I want to start wearing them weekly though when fall rolls around~~

With the red one even going out once would be enough for people to remember you for the rest of their days. catgirl-smug

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