[-] TheDeed@hexbear.net 55 points 1 week ago

TIL Andrew Tate is biracial

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By the 19th century, crackers were fueling European conquest.

cracker

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I posted this on here 4 years ago and I had no idea what the future would hold back then

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Sometimes people I just met (in a platonic context) will ask me things like "hey, what's your Instagram, let's keep in touch!"

My standard answer is that I don't do social media, but I have found that people take it as bragging perhaps? I get answers like "oh, good for you! I wish I didn't" or whatever.

If I say oh here's my number that seems too odd these days, people not that much younger than me (I'm 31) don't seem to text anymore. They use fb messenger or Instagram or others.

Also saying something like "I'm a privacy advocate and I use the fediverse" is also an odd thing to say unless I'm around techy people and even then it's weird tbh.

How do I approach this? I don't think I am better than people that use social media, its just not for me. I would prefer to text but I am not sure that works for a lot of people.

Or should I just bite the bullet and get an Instagram so that I don't seem weird, and then perhaps ask for further contact details via that platform?

Abstaining from social media can be extremely alienating.

autistic btw if you couldn't tell lmao, I have spent a lot of time thinking about this problem

[-] TheDeed@hexbear.net 58 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Meanwhile Israel has a holiday where they celebrate running over an anti-genocide protestor with a bulldozer, flattening and killing her. They make pancakes on that day to celebrate.

[-] TheDeed@hexbear.net 66 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

It feels like literally everyone is against us and it is depressing af.

No, they are pulling out these tactics to silence people because the majority agree with us (on Palestine at least). That's why they're amping up the fascism to give the impression of everyone being against us.

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[-] TheDeed@hexbear.net 54 points 4 months ago

Large scale factory farming with little regulatory oversight and wretched conditions for both animal and human alike.

[-] TheDeed@hexbear.net 86 points 5 months ago

It's going to have to get much much worse before engineers unionize. I am sorry to say my fellows do not occupy reality in a class sense and these layoffs are just a taste of what's to come.

I also don't encounter a lot of the "learn to code" types irl, if ever. If anything, i hear pushback on outsourcing and bootcamps. I wonder how much of that sentiment was actual engineers vs students online who hadn't entered the workforce yet.

Most engineers I know are OK but not at all class conscious people.

I also have some bias here, I don't live or work on the coasts so the silicon valley elistist tech bro musk worshipping cutthroat competitive culture you see at big tech is just not there. And those types tend to be the loudest shittiest dudes online.

Midwest here, most folks just treat it as a job like any other. Still won't fucking unionize though, US propaganda is too strong.

[-] TheDeed@hexbear.net 51 points 8 months ago

Might be nostalgia glasses + the new sorting algorithm. I've been here a while and things haven't changed that much.

What I have noticed:

  • Discussions have mostly moved from posts to megathreads, honestly this is kinda weird to me but w/e. Its still happening tho, just maybe not in the expected format
  • less trolling, due to the efforts of the admins/mods
  • less reactionary shit in general, chuds & terfs & stupidpol types get utterly decimated when trying to post here, there were definitely people that used to slip past the radar and would poison the well of discussion here
  • People here are a little less liberal (me included) after having to kill the Bernie in their hearts and minds + forced integration with lemmygrad
[-] TheDeed@hexbear.net 59 points 10 months ago

M virtue signaling lib job is really rah rahing about the "terrorist attacks" and "seeing and hearing us" "you are valid" etc and I feel like I'm losing my mind

the sheer speed at which the narrative has formed is fucking scary, feels a bit like 9/11 . everyone is just going along with it, no questions asked and you're a monster if you point out that the Palestinians are being genocided.

Being pro-palestine would be effectively career suicide for me ofc so I just have to sit there and seethe

[-] TheDeed@hexbear.net 52 points 11 months ago
[-] TheDeed@hexbear.net 52 points 11 months ago

Right? Hexbear has existed for 3 years solo. What motivation is there to sabotage other instances

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Like there was Best of 2020/21 with the worst takes ever. I'm looking for links to those plus the 2022 edition if anyone's got it.

I vaguely remember a few:

  • Bernie reminds me of when my abusive dad throws the pot roast at the wall when he talks too loudly about healthcare
  • political consultant white woman with dyed hair who looks like a hunger games villian and tweets like 90s era snoop dogg. I'm talking like "yo yo wiggity wack" levels of cringe
  • Person who says they would genocide 1 billion dogs to save a hypothetical baby, unprompted
  • Anti mask woman who posted a mask that looks like someone rubbed fucking Cheeto dust on the inside and says everyone's mask looks like that at the end of the day
  • hornyposting about sex w/ Beto or something

There's tons of others but these are the ones that live rent free in my head.

[-] TheDeed@hexbear.net 53 points 1 year ago

Throwback to the time when someone mentioned Reagan at my in-laws Thanksgiving and I blurted out "RIP BOZO" without thinking, was an automatic brain response

For my efforts I got treated to a lecture about how great he was because of government cheese (?)

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