[-] isame@hexbear.net 1 points 3 days ago

Shameless bump. Three days left to reach my needed amount.

Amber whataboutism volcel police

[-] isame@hexbear.net 1 points 5 days ago

bump amber whataboutism

Thanks for the help so far! I have a little hope now.

[-] isame@hexbear.net 1 points 6 days ago

Shameless self bump amber whataboutism

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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by isame@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

So last week I broke my wrist. I naively thought work would cover my wages because I am full-time, have full benefits, and work for a fortune whatever company. It's a fucking grocery store.

Turns out I have to submit a form to get paid. No one told me this, so I did not get paid today. I was going to be late on rent because I don't make enough, but now I don't think I can make rent at all. I'm so close to just getting in contact with some travelers I know and checking out. I gave it a go right? But I don't want to. I want to live a quiet life with a little apartment, no kids. Just let me have a studio and a fulfilling job.

I take a lot of pride in my work. It's simple. I'm a produce clerk. But I work for a big company, and they do as they do. Nothing is good enough. Nothing we do is good enough. So my pride is gone. I come in, work, go home. I do not care. I wanted to be management. No way in hell.

I'm exhausted, comrades. I don't know what to do.

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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by isame@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

I'll try to keep it short because I'm sure people are tired of hearing about it.

The week that I was out with my broken wrist, I thought would be paid. I've never had a job with PTO or sick time before. I'd used my allotted PTO for the year. So I put in my requests as serious medical (injury), assuming they'd pay me and then if I was found to be fraudulent they'd claw that back. Oh boy, am I naive. Definitely feeling stupid for a grown ass man.

So needless to say I didn't get a paycheck as I was supposed to. My apartment complex agreed yesterday to let me pay rent late on the 9th, and I'd just be responsible for the late fees within two weeks of the 9th. I could have pulled that off with about ~30 left between the next two weeks, but I'd still have a place to stay.

So now I'm here. I don't know what else to do. I'm going to go get the paperwork for FMLA (medical leave) signed by the doctor today, but this process can take weeks and I'm not even 100% sure it will work, as someone made a comment about it not kicking in for two weeks. I took that to mean FMLA won't kick in unless it was bad enough for me to be out of work for two weeks. Guess I should have milked that doctor's note huh?

So, I hate landlords, I hate capitalism. I have a couple groceries thanks to the fine folks here the other day, but now I need ~460 (this check will be complete and I can cover the other 300) by the 9th, plus the normal bills and such I was hoping to cover this week, along with groceries and etc, totaling 100.

I'll accept any advice in this situation as well, but I think I'm on top of it now. I just didn't realize I was supposed to be filling out paperwork while I was sitting in the ER and had no idea what was happening...

So actual long story short: Got hurt, work/capitalism fucked me, and I'm short on short-term bills to the tune of $100 and need an additional ~460 by the 9th. I don't expect the comm to make up all this difference, but I don't have friends with any available resources at the moment. I'm resourceful and will keep trying, but I'm in a tough spot. With my wrist broken there's not much side work I can do.

Thank you all so much. I'm trying really hard not to freak out about this. I really don't want to be homeless and start over again.

PayPal is sgriffith0891 at gee mail dot com

CashApp is $sgriffith0891

P.S. In other news, I'm pretty sure I'm easing some of my coworkers more and more left, so that's fun!

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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by isame@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

[Thank you!]

So basically here's the story:

Last week I broke my wrist and now I'm in a cast for ~8 weeks. I've been on shaky financial footing for a while, but that set me back even more. Had to spend money on Ubers and extra food, copays, etc. I'm okay and back to work on light duty.

I'm going to talk to my apartment complex today to see if I can pay late this month without the late fees, because that's about the only way I can afford it. I'll be behind for next, but I have more time to adjust for that. There's two paychecks between now and the 9th that will total just shy of 800, which is just enough to pay rent plus a few essentials. Then there's three more checks after that in October, so hopefully I can actually get caught up this time. This treadmill is really starting to beat me down.

On top of that, I've got little to no food currently. I got a little help here the other day, but unfortunately I'm a hungry boy and even just buying chicken legs and rice and a couple veggies doesn't go very far.

So this one is a bit open-ended, I suppose. I am most likely going to need more help coming up, as I can't even do lawn work on the side. But for the moment, I need some food and a thing of toilet paper. I ate the last of my chicken and rice last night, and my stomach is starting to grumble. I should have posted then but thought I might have something else in the works. That didn't pan out.

Thank all of you so much for the help you give - not just to me but to everyone here. I am amazed at the things this community has been able to accomplish, just watching the requests being fulfilled. You all are fucking amazing.

For anyone interested, it's a minimally displaced scaphoid fracture. I just took a little tumble off my bike. Nothing dramatic or exciting; honestly it was kind of embarrassing.

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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by isame@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

[Need Met! Thank you!] I just need 20 or so for some groceries.

Thank you all!

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Fractured Wrist (hexbear.net)
submitted 2 weeks ago by isame@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

So, I managed to fall off my bike and fracture my wrist. I went to the ER on Friday and an internal medicine referral today, who referred me to ortho surgery for them to check it out and make a treatment recommendation, and whether or not I need surgery.

For the hospital visit day, which took about 8 hours for me to get a splint/brace and the referral, I spent money on Ubering to and from, plus a stop for ibuprofen, plus food for myself and my friend that went with me.

All that to say I'm now broke, and I am supposed to go to ortho tomorrow, which should be a $50 copay. I think I'm okay on other things for now, and that is my main concern. Apparently this particular bone can just die if not addressed, I work exclusively with my hands - stocking groceries and cutting fruit - so I can't work right now at all. Not at least until I see the appropriate doctors. I do have coverage through work and should be fine there, or as fine as I ever was with what I was making.

So, in short, in need of $50 to cover a medical copay.

Paypal is sgriffith0891 at geemail dot com

CashApp is $sgriffith0891

Thank you, friends!

P.S. I made it 33 years without breaking a bone!

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submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by isame@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

I'm out of money and food until Tuesday night, so I could really use some help. Anything at all is helpful right now. I just spent my last 1.60 on three cups of ramen for lunch at work.

Thank you, comrades.

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) by isame@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

[Thank you!]

I could really use some help with groceries. I get paid tonight but it's all going to my past-due rent. I'm having to pay like 120 in late fees this month because I couldn't make it happen on time.

So I just need some food. Thank you all so much. Life has kind of thrown me a curve ball in terms of a couple personal relationships and I could really do without the added stress of trying to figure out how I'm eating. Also, if anyone has suggestions on good poverty food please feel free to share!

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Pride Gear? (hexbear.net)
submitted 1 month ago by isame@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net

This may be the wrong comm. Sorry if it is.

I recently misplaced my pride lanyard, along with my keys. The keys have been replaced. I'd like to buy something pansexual-themed, as that is how I identify. Does anyone have any good sources for such things? I found a seller on Etsy that sold chainmaille pieces (I used to make them), but my order was cancelled. I assume the shop is defunct. A lanyard isn't necessary, but something subtle that I can wear at a major grocery chain would be good. We're allowed a little personal expression.

Shipping in the US is a requirement.

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by isame@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

[Thank you!]

Hello all you wonderful people. I come here today with a less dire request than usual. I've managed to more or less stay on top of my bills, and with a little help from a friend with food stamps, I have food. I do, however, need a new pair of work pants. The one pair that I currently own has developed a hole in the ass. Fortunately, it's on the left hip pocket, and the pocket liners are dark colored like the pants, so you can't see my underwear or anything. But it still doesn't look good, and I feel a draft that makes me paranoid.

Looks like I can get a pair of Dickie's at Walmart for ~25 + tax, so that's what I'm requesting. I've lost so much weight in the last year that I don't even know what size I am anymore, so I'll have to go try some on. But there's a Walmart a little over two miles from my apartment, so I can walk or bus there.

I appreciate any help. Thank you all!

PayPal: sgriffith0891 at geemail dot com

CashApp: $sgriffith0891

Thank you comrades!

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by isame@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

My bike has a flat, so I'm currently relying on coworkers for rides, which I don't like doing. I could also use some supplemental groceries. Those who keep up with the little mess that is my life will be glad to know that I've stopped losing weight and I'm feeling a lot better. The unfortunate side effect of that is it means I am eating a ridiculous amount of food some days to offset my expenditure at work. I'm mostly buying pork chops, potatoes, a green vegetable of some variety and ramen or rice for carbs. So nometimes I think I'm cooking enough for two meals and I just go through it all. But this is an improvement to uncontrollabled weight loss.

40 should be enough if I'm careful.

PayPal: sgriffith0891@gmail.com

CashApp: $sgriffith0891

Thank you all so much!

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submitted 1 month ago by isame@hexbear.net to c/movies@hexbear.net

I've got a friend coming over in a couple days and we decided we were in the mood to watch some old fashioned sci-fi. Or, something newer would work as well. I'd like to find something with a leftist bent, but I'm unsure where to start, or what's out there. I've never been a big movie buff.

Suggestions?

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submitted 1 month ago by isame@hexbear.net to c/mutual_aid@hexbear.net

I've got a little instant brown rice but no meat left. I need some TP and to buy a plunger, apparently, because waiting for maintenance to come do it is getting a little silly. I've been walking up to the office to use the restroom. I get paid tomorrow but about $310 of the $340 my direct deposit must be purchased as a money order and put towards rent, otherwise there's no way I'll be able to pay it come next week.

Thanks for any help that can be given.

PayPal: sgriffith0891 at geemail dot com

CashApp: $sgriffith0891

You are all amazing.

[-] isame@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago

I was losing my mind trying to figure that out. Thank you! I've been at work all day, so there was no way I read it in the past four hours.

[-] isame@hexbear.net 46 points 10 months ago

So you're telling me a single, solitary, septuagenarian simpleton shivved Chauvin?

Salute

[-] isame@hexbear.net 29 points 10 months ago

Not to be a doomer but... We're doomed. Toast to the end of the human species, comrades!

[-] isame@hexbear.net 24 points 11 months ago

I unfortunately can't speak to this directly as I don't have direct knowledge of ad blockers.

However, in these systems, it will always be a cat and mouse game. And there are more of us than them, so to speak. There always will be.

So they embed the ads. Then someone does some clever coding to watch for ads and auto skip. YouTube finds a way around that, the community circumvents their fix. It always has and always will work that way. The technology works for all of us.

[-] isame@hexbear.net 28 points 11 months ago

I swiped back and had to come back to like your comment, so might as well say as much.

[-] isame@hexbear.net 34 points 11 months ago

For anyone actually confused, this guy is in the finance and investment world. A joke developed that you always bet against him.

[-] isame@hexbear.net 25 points 11 months ago

I missed seeing these posted here.

[-] isame@hexbear.net 38 points 1 year ago

Welcome! I'm a baby leftist myself. I've found nothing but welcome and I wish you the same. It's a good place to be. I'll likely be reading theory alongside you. Enjoy your journey!

[-] isame@hexbear.net 24 points 1 year ago

Brings a tear to my eye, I tells ya

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