[-] the_post_of_tom_joad@hexbear.net 3 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

ohnoes hoooly shit that job sucks get out get out get oooout i hate them!

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[-] the_post_of_tom_joad@hexbear.net 12 points 2 hours ago

Its ok man, i listed myself as cis in the last survey and nothing hap

[-] the_post_of_tom_joad@hexbear.net 35 points 3 hours ago

Police Incite Violence at Port Strike

[-] the_post_of_tom_joad@hexbear.net 6 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Does the news think we're all stupid? ARE we all stupid? Are there actually that many people falling for this?

I think it's the media's deliberate manipulating of information and humanity's natural bystander effect

Specifically one study where students had to complete an exam and they pumped smoke under the door to see the results:

According to the principle of social influence, bystanders monitor the reactions of other people in an emergency situation to see if others think that it is necessary to intervene. If it is determined that others are not reacting to the situation, bystanders will interpret the situation as not an emergency and will not intervene.

The media portraying the genocide are calmly telling burgerland that everything is fine, something people universally want to believe. It's not that we can't. in fact when students were alone in the smoky room they were much faster to report the smoke. But when they were in groups they did not.

Referring to the smoke experiment, even though students in the groups had clearly noticed the smoke which had become so thick that it was obscuring their vision, irritating their eyes or causing them to cough, they were still unlikely to report it. Only one participant in the group condition reported the smoke within the first four minutes, and by the end of the experiment, no-one from five of eight groups had reported the smoke at all.

I think this is kinda close to the dynamic i mean. The "smoke" of the genocide (and expanding war) is literally in yanks faces but for the calming effect of the media they still trust, acting as they always do, as if hundreds of thousands of lives aren't catching in their fucking throats.

Similarly, interpretations of the context played an important role in people's reactions to a man and woman fighting in the street. When the woman yelled, "Get away from me; I don't know you," bystanders intervened 65 percent of the time, but only 19 percent of the time when the woman yelled, "Get away from me; I don't know why I ever married you.“

And here i might be really stretching but i say here is where the lie "they've been fighting for thousands of years" works on the masses, who don't know Israel is an invention younger than the sitting president.

Woof effort posting is hard I'm gonna stop

[-] the_post_of_tom_joad@hexbear.net 32 points 5 hours ago

we're here because the programming didn't work on us, but probably for a bunch of different reasons, many of which are also outside of our control.

If i hadn't got mad at the price of cable 20 years ago and pulled the plug i might be doing cold calls for kamala rn for all i know. I try not to look down on the folks still deep in prop cuz it really wasnt long enough ago i too was in platos cave

Haha those dreams where you're smoking and wake up feeling guilty/relieved it's not real mannn

[-] the_post_of_tom_joad@hexbear.net 10 points 7 hours ago

If 80 senators decide the vote should be anonymous then it could be, right? Normally i don't think that'd be possible but for something AIPAC hold so dear i could see it

First couple of months are the shittiest. Won't lie, probably 2-3 before i wasnt getting that empty feeling in my throat, that craving for the burn. But if you get past that part it really does get easier i swear. Not easy but i swear not as bad as what you're going thru rn.

Youve got one down mate, you can do it. Ill cheer for your success

Keep my butt stain out of your fucking mouth!

I was gonna say the same. Some can use vaping to quit but i just switched to smoking my vape all day. while vaping kicks the shit out of smoking in terms of stinkiness i have no faith in the safety of these vapes. My lungs feel worse than with og baccy.

Have you ever quit before? My longest stint was for 7 years before relapse

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Rolling pronouns? (hexbear.net)

Ok so i learned about a person coming out as non binary recently and this reminded me of my confusion about (i think they're called rolling pronouns) she/they and he/they specifically.

I have looked around at some sites speaking to it but none of them have made it clear to me whether use of "her" or "him" instead of "theirs" in the case of someone who wishes for (s)he/they is misgendering.

I had (mis)understood before that (s)he/they meant they were fine with either their gendered pronoun AND the gender free option, but am i way off base? Is the "they" not an option?

Apologies if this is breaking rules or has been answered, i didn't see anything on the sidebar so here goes nothin...

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