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Men, how do you deal with the misandry online. Does it affect you mentally? (lemm.ee)

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Seen this on reddit and thought it was an interesting question that largely is not talked about.

It is largely an issue that gets sidelined and hidden because people don't want to talk about it or accept that it exists. Hopefully this gets some traction to break that marginalisation.

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[-] Wanderer@lemm.ee 4 points 3 months ago

Not the first one.

I wasn't thinking the second but that would be an example. I would say conversations with men over this topic is a lot easier than you would expect. There is support there. Bringing up with women who want a men to not cry or be sensitive can be difficult.

[-] can@sh.itjust.works 6 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I'd refer to "toxic masculinity" or "the manosphere" if that's what you meant.

[-] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 3 points 3 months ago

I mean, I think there’s a time and a place for crying and it’s not usually in public, but if you are among a support network, then by all means.

That said, after a devastating breakup for me, I have cried in public, at a party, among strangers, and it sucked.

What I would like to see is just more camaraderie in general. Not bro culture per se, just more, social events. Kinda like the beer halls of yesteryear in Germany or the Shriners clubs. I feel like a lot of these rotaries, lions, etc, just have kind of fallen away in most towns, particularly for young people, and I really think we are losing a piece of our community because of it.

Meetups used to fill some of that gap for me, but it’s been way too long (and two moves) since I’ve been to one. And I’m not the type to go to church (believe me, I tried - the whole women lesser than men thing around here really turned me off).

I’m one of those weirdos, 50/50 introvert extrovert. And now with a family, it’s tougher than ever.

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