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[–] jabathekek@sopuli.xyz 98 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Real talk:

Thomas has a natural talent of helping people figure shit out about themselves.

[–] jojo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 46 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Tbh sometimes that doesn't even need to be a talent, it could just be someone who can be there to accept people and just Be Around as a friend, since that allows someone to experiment and test their perception around others.

You don't need to have therapist-levels of social perception skills to be that, sometimes you can just be Thomas, the person who you can still be friends with, despite everything.

[–] SuDmit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 6 months ago

Despite everything, it's still ~~y~~Thomas

[–] jabathekek@sopuli.xyz 6 points 6 months ago

We all need a Thomas. Or should try to be a Thomas.