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[–] unhrpetby@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I don't think she's saying this because she prefers it, but rather because she sees it is necessary.

“If, for instance, we want to have a majoritarian coalition — not just electorally, but specifically on issues around trans rights — that, by necessity, is going to have to include people who have a range of thoughts,” McBride continued.

She is clearly arguing that its more effective to be open to a range of ideas than to not so.

“A binary choice between being all-on or all-off is not constructive for anyone,” she said. “It impedes the very needed path toward winning electorally, winning hearts and minds, and, most importantly, winning progress.”

Politics is a strategic war. Its very simple to be 100%, non-compromising, in-support of something. But is that the most effective path forward?

[–] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They want to eliminate trans people, so let's compromise and only eliminate half. Hooray! We're civil!

[–] unhrpetby@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I see value in being uncompromising (look at Richard Stallman in Free Software). I also see value in giving a little in the right areas for a net gain.

I don't think McBride thinks that this is the ultimatum given at the moment (100% vs 50% of trans people die), that would explain why she is willing to compromise.

If she did see it that way, she would probably do the same as you.

Her wanting to compromise at this moment does not mean she would compromise in the worst of moments.

[–] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

I don't think McBride thinks that this is the ultimatum given at the moment

It's not, but the whole point is erosion of civil rights by generating hate then just swinging for the fences. I was gonna say death by a thousand cuts but it's not even that anymore.

What does she expect to compromise on? Trans athletes? It doesn't matter. We're past that point already. Trans people can't even get a proper passport anymore.

[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I mean, I think you should take this the wrong way, but this sounds like something a fascist apologist would say.

[–] unhrpetby@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

One could make similar statements (and some do), about voting for the democrats over a better farther-left party. The defenders of voting Democrat would likely tell you the same thing: "Its our only chance at winning."

Are you voting for genocide if you compromise and vote for the Democrats? Or are you merely making the best of a broken system?

You decide.

[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

So, the problem you have with this pitchfork, and I'll accept the fallacy for the purpose of exercise, is that it isn't happening in a vacuum. We actually have the receipts for exactly what you outline.

Voter were told “Its our only chance at winning.” They were being asked by Democrats to compromise and vote for genocide. And the Democrats lost in spectacular fashion.

Acting like you are trying to make the best of an imperfect system, when what you are really doing is creating the permission structure for it to get continuously worse: this approach to electoralism loses elections.

We have the receipts. We don't need to run the experiment again. We know, unequivocally, that if we ask people to compromise on something that they know is deeply immoral, we will lose.

Its not only that its deeply immoral: Its also bad strategy. Compromising on issue like trans rights, the march towards fascism, genocide: This loses you elections. You are asking someone to become a worse, lessor person, to adopt a strategy that won't even win. And this is the crux of it.

Democrats as politicians can-not continue to ask their voters to expect less of them. Not only because the things their asking for are deeply immoral, but in doing so, they've adopted a strategy which will lose them their race.

Its less important to me that its less strategic than it is less immoral. But this rotten brain worm that "compromise" will get you what you want; that if we can just convince people if they vote "strategic" enough, eventually, maybe after decades of voting, they'll get what they need to be considered human (gay marriage, civil rights, trans rights, women rights, social safety nets, minimum wage, on and on; almost none of the progressive policies we've ever accomplished have been achieved through bipartisan compromise).

Compromise in this context is the second stroke of the ratchet mechanism that has locked America into a frog march towards fascism. Compromise is the song of Martin Luther Kings "white moderate"; the greater obstacle than those directly advocating towards a negative peace, rather than accepting the tension of a positive peace that fosters justice.

That compromise is what you advocate for.

I reject it.

[–] unhrpetby@sh.itjust.works 0 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

We have the receipts. We don't need to run the experiment again. We know, unequivocally, that if we ask people to compromise on something that they know is deeply immoral, we will lose.

People have proposed multiple reasons why the Democrats lost. This is one. Them "continuing to play gender politics" is another.

A simple "They kept supporting isreal + they lost = they lost because of supporting isreal" lacks evidence. I believe this is rather complex.

[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 0 points 17 hours ago

If you want to keep your head in the sand and losing elections, keep doing this.