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pretty much as the title states. i'm gonna try and work as much as i can doing gig work sort of stuff today and tomorrow to try and avoid a late fee but anything would help. i start some college courses on monday so i won't have a ton of time after; i'm a little stressed about it. idk i'm honestly just kind of sad bc i feel like i'm gonna get dumped over being short on rent. which like, valid i get it. it's just a tough economy and paying for school and everything else is tough. idk. just really sad :(

i'm open to any recommendations on what to do for money quickly that isn't a scam.

if anyone needs any sort of IT or development services i am available to work. i have a compsci degree and can provide a resume upon request if credentials are important.

my cashapp is $jwmgregory but i can provide alternate methods if cashapp is problematic.

thank you for reading my post.

EDIT: i have been real busy trying to scrape together cash the past few days but someone who is literally my personal hero helped me out here. i meant to come back and edit this post yesterday but didn't end up getting to it this morning. thank you guys so much for the help. this community is awesome and i think you guys are some of the most effectual activists i have ever met in my life. you guys have good heads on your shoulders and i'm certain some of you will change the world one day! we can only dream of a society where this forum is made obsolete...

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[โ€“] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Bump amber whataboutism

And I can't speak for your relationship specifically, but if you're doing everything you can to make rent and you have a good partner, you're not gonna get dumped. Will they maybe be frustrated with the situation? Sure, finances in a relationship are a huge stressor, but a good partner is going to emotionally support you through this as long as you're doing your part. You're posting on here looking for work and assistance, which shows that you are. You're not expecting them to just fix everything while you do nothing, you're just stuck between a rock and a hard place financially between school, rent, and just surviving. I'm sure your partner will understand. And if they don't? Then maybe getting dumped is for the best.

Idk, I've been in similar situations before, more often than not my partner understood. And when they didn't and ended up leaving me, my life got better for it, yk? Best of luck friend.