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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 5 points 3 days ago (5 children)

Didn't feel like washing my hair today so just spent idk how long brushing it, it poofs up real bad and comes out like a lion's mane. It is significantly long but normally when it curls it seems way shorter, if I were to iron it it looked gorgeous I bet but don't wanna damage it

[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Don't brush your hair if its dry. You have curly hair right? It gets fucked up if you brush it while it's dry. Use some hair cream at least, or don't do anything except styling with your hands

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 3 points 3 days ago (2 children)

thank you for this heads up, I rarely brush it when dry because I always figured it was a lot of effort for barely any results doggirl-shock I do have some leave in conditioner I guess I could use but I tend to use that more after a shower when I'm styling.

[โ€“] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

the best thing for curly or wavy hair is a wide tooth comb when soaking wet in the shower. never brush when its dry! i like to detangle this way and then condition

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 1 points 2 days ago

I've been doing this a lot actually despite thinking I wasn't supposed to to be real. Honestly whenever I see media of women with long hair brushing and brushing their hair I assumed I was just doing it wrong this whole time.

[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 3 points 2 days ago

I've had long hair for a good while, and it's very curly, this is stuff you sorta pickup or learn from other people

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