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[cw: body shaming maybe] How do you talk to your friends who are worried about their body shape (hexbear.net)
submitted 10 months ago by ButtBidet@hexbear.net to c/askchapo@hexbear.net
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Friends sometimes complain that they're too big, too short, too tall, etc. I think they're all fine, and want to let them know that. My problem is that I'm a middle aged guy and and I don't want to give off any whiff that I'm flirting with anyone. I just want to tell people that they're perfect and good the way they are. Are there safe ways to say it?

I feel like this is a thing that easier to do if you're a woman? (sorry if I'm wrong)

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 2 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

My friends tend to prefer physical reassurance but idk if you are friends like that. They like hugs and cuddling and stuff like that. Seems to calm them down to just cuddle on a couch and watch some slop