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[–] FishLake@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I've been thinking about it and I don't like the traditional stranger talk, because it tells kids to work off the assumption every adult they don't know is going to steal or abuse them.

That’s absolutely the right move. In abuse prevention in the US, they use the term “safe adult.” And having these conversations regularly about who is and who isn’t a safe adult is very helpful. Here’s some helpful info

(CW: discussing child SA)https://mbfpreventioneducation.org/safe-adults/

[–] tombruzzo@hexbear.net 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Thank you, this is really helpful. I don't want to try make my kids scared of other adults when they're statistically not the people they should be worried about.

[–] FishLake@lemmygrad.ml 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You got it. I used to teach this stuff. Lemme know if you want any advise about how to explain who sage adults are.

[–] tombruzzo@hexbear.net 2 points 10 months ago

My girlfriend works in childcare so I hope we'll be able to discuss things from here. I think we agree on most things, it's just about going over the particulars