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This is a continuation of the criticism of a community of transfem YouTuber who used to be a awesome friend of mine.

So, I have some people who were previously banned from the same community. They told that loyalty and trust to a certain YouTuber were a requirement to engage with the community.

Someone said "Honestly, she just wants people who are loyal to her and nothing else. Even slightly disagreeing with her gets you on the chopping block". This is not what a good trans community should be. "The more she pushes people out, the more her community will collapse until there isn't a community left anymore." Pushing more people out without a good reason, will not make a community good.

Everyone knows that the worse the scheduling she makes, it couldn't do better to retain engagement. If things around her IRL don't subside, then her community will be doomed in the long term.

Constructive criticism could help her do what could be better for the future of herself and her community. I may add more input when someone who is still on her community informs me privately of new changes.

TL;DR: Trans communities should socialize more people, not to make divisive and tyrannic statements that could put existing people into risk of being pushed out if they don't follow. No community is perfect, so check the background before interacting.

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 12 points 9 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

Issue is lib trans people enjoy lording over others and make divisive, often racist and classist, statements that other people in the community. This is despite the fact that most trans people are socialists. It obviously becomes all about the lib ingroup and not about helping other trans people. Even in groups that aren't specifically about one particular person, you can find this sort of thing. People in our housing group have been banned from trans servers for trying to help homeless trans people.

I try to mitigate ingroup behavior here by making being added as a mod a simple thing.

[–] ahrienby@hexbear.net 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I also need to know that she used to be a U.S. Marine before, and also she is a physically disabled person. The accident occured three years ago on her way to work.

And also, she is seeking help from other people to address the ongoing situation.