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I never said they stopped trying. You can keep trying and keep failing. There's a point in time where something becomes essentially impossible to succeed at with your current resources (including time).
Take the class example you were giving, where your nephew didn't get a perfect grade and gave up/adopted a bad attitude that made his academic progress falter.
Isolate this time period to one packed class. Some students are going to sleep through class and still get an A. Others are going to try and study every night, yet still get a back grade. Others will be like your nephew, sure. This is the reality of life. That doesn't mean they should give up for the next class, but surely you see what I'm saying, right? Once the class ends, there's no opportunity to go back in time and get a better grade.
and what you don't get, is that some people stop trying entirely and basically just fail automatically, and then blame other people for this, because they refuse to take responsibility for themselves.
sorry, have you never known people like this? I haven't known person after person after person like this. They are everywhere.
I'm not referring to those people, though. You are. I agree that they exist and that they chose the wrong path.
I'm referring to the people that try and still fail, as per my original post. Can you acknowledge them?