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(woman talking)
I dated a guy who had an adjustable flashlight and he really liked it (and it was fun to use on him as a nice side effect).
Guy here - I'm not a fan. Lube dries out in them REALLY fast, IMO, and you can't use silicone lube safely. If they made one that constantly added small amounts of lube, they'd be great.
Sounds interesting. What do you mean by adjustable?
What does she mean by flashlight?
There was a dial on the end that let you control how hard it gripped, there was a particular setting and pace he definitely preferred.
hmmm...autocorrect strikes again.
You should try a shampoo bottle.
the big ones with handles from Costco.
At a medium pace.