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Yes, I do see that, but that's within a marriage setting. Completely different to if a man she isn't married to refuses to hire her as an accountant because she's a woman.
yeah. he tells children to submit to parents, too.
At no point does Paul tell men to submit to women in the same way that he tells women to submit to men. Neither does he tell parents to submit to children.
Also there were very few women who were unmarried, culturally, at that time, the role of women were to mary and attend to their husband's house and raise their children. No where does he contradict that.
He doesn't tell women to submit to men, he tells wives to submit to their husbands. Both male and female children submit to their parents. Of course he doesn't tell parents to submit to their children, that's essentially lunacy.
Generally it's traditionally believed that Mary Magdalene didn't marry. Consecrated virgins (nuns) were also a thing
Paul defends the decision of women not to marry
1 Corinthians 7:8-9
We know almost nothing about Magdalen, we neither know if she was or was not married, or a widow, neither do we know if she had a leadership role at all.
Remember “disciple” wasn’t a special position- it was just anyone who follows another. A disciple of Jesus was any of the hundreds or thousands. The 12 disciples and later 12 apostles were the leaders after Jesus.
As for Paul’s exhortation to unmarried women… how many women do you think never married?
Remember. They’re to obey their fathers. Who would be arranging marriages well before they reached marital age.
And then they’re married, they’re to obey their husbands. young girls were not making these decisions. Their parents were.
There’s still no verse where Paul says to obey women in the same way that women are to obey men. I’m sorry. Husbands are to obey wives in the same way wives are to obey husbands.
None.
And you understand why Paul was like that, right? They thought Armageddon was coming like in a year or two. Or sooner. Any day, really. (He just stopped for some milk!)
They thought there was no point in building a stable life because Jesus would come back do all the messianic stuff he failed to do the first time and then everything would be amazing.
Given that we’re still waiting, it’s probably a good thing for the early church they mostly ignored that.
This didn't really happen in Christendom.
Husbands don't necessarily obey their wives in the same way. Husbands are given a greater task of "loving their wives as Christ loved The Church"
Ephesians 5:23-33
This definitely cannot be ignored, the implications of this command must be broken down.
Husbands are to serve their wives, not the other way around:
Mark 10:45
Husbands are to be willing to die for their wives. Not just in taking a bullet - that's too easy - but dying to your own passions and desires everyday for the comfort of your wife - because you love her and do this out of love.
I should also emphasise the meaning of the word love here:
ἀγαπάω (agapos, verb for agape ἀγάπη)
This isn't the same word as sexual love (eros). In fact, it's basically exclusively used to describe the love that God has for us.
ἀγάπη is very sharply defined also:
1 Corinthians 13:1-13
So it's not the secular view of a patriarchal system, but a self-sacrificing Christlike husband whom the wife trusts and obeys.
Yes. It. Did.
In europe, arranged marriages were normal until ww2. The practice of arranging marriages didn't even begin to decline until the 17th century and marriage-for-love only became common after 2nd-wave feminism. the way we go about marriages today is very different than it was in the first century. neither the first century jews or gentiles (greek or roman) had what you describe.
So. if obedience and love (or service, since you brought that up,) are the same and equivalent things... why make distinctions. Why not say "husbands obey your wives?"
Because love and obedience are different things. You can go to the greek, if you want. still different words. ὑποτάσσεται, is the word use- literally "subjected to" in 22 gets its verb from 21, "Being submissive". Two different words with two different meanings.
So yeah. seems very patriarchal to me. Jesus doesn't obey the chruch, or submit to the church. He commands it, and "the church" is to submit.
At least in the UK, that's just not true. It was a thing nobility did, but it anyone who wasn't generally married for love. Even the Bible documents marrying for love on separate occasions in old testament times.
Service, obedience and love aren't the same things. A good policeman serves his community, but he doesn't submit to them. A lot of the time, service does involve hearing out their opinion, and loving them, but not submission. If two partners were to submit to each other, how does it work when the wife orders her husband and her husband orders her to not order him, in which she returns by ordering him to not order her to not order him, and so forth? Which one is in the right here?
Exactly. But he serves the Church by interceding for them, granting miracles, teaching them, and most of all, going through torture and pains, even that of death, to save them. He is patient and ever-forgiving with us. He doesn't forsake us no matter how much or how badly we screw up. And Husbands are ordered to do the same.
I'm not denying that this is patriarchal - there is an element of patriarchy to Christian families. But I wouldn't use the term patriarchy due to it's secular undertones where it's perceived that the man doesn't display Christ-like love for his wife. God laid out the structure that the husband is the head of the wife and that God is the head of the husband. Across the Bible, even by some extent in the book of Genesis, Marriage is depicted as a picture of Christ and His Church. That's what marriage is - it's a picture to show us our relationship to God. The Church is the Bride of Christ.
So British were… Christian now? Some were, sure. But only in the later first century.
Rome only invaded the isle in 40 c.e or so. Paul was on the other side of the world. He may have been “aware” that they existed, but he certainly wasn’t influenced by them. And frankly given how he didn’t write them any letters… I find that dubious.(he died around 65ad, and the letter furthest west was to Rome.)
Paul’s instruction to how women should behave in their daily lives is “wives, obey your husbands” and there’s no similar command to husbands to obey their wives , it’s inherently patriarchal.
You keep trying to say that’s okay because husbands are supposed to love their wives. But that’s not equality, it’s misogyny.
Remember, Paul also used the language of obedience and submission to slaves and masters. He also says that Christian’s are slaves to Christ (probably getting the idea from the mosaic covenant, where Israelites are slaves to god.)
The point being that relationship is inherently unequal. It’s patriarchal and misogynistic. It doesn’t matter if masters are to love their slaves or husbands love their wives.
“But I’m a kind master” doesn’t make owning slaves okay. “But I’m a loving husband” doesn’t make controlling and subjugating your wife okay.
Not in the modern era.
You said "until WW2". Britain was Christian within that wide timeframe you provided. I know for a fact from my own family history that wasn't the case.
It's not supposed to be equality by the white, western secular definition of it. A woman can also choose not to marry, as to which she'd be subject to the same authority structures as men. Marriage is choosing to submit to a man of your choice. The Bible and Christianity doesn't have to conform to 21st century white society. In fact, Christianity has basically always opposed society, everywhere and anywhere. In USA 'Republican' circles, it condemns their greed and selfish attitudes. In USA 'Democratic' circles, it condemns their fornication and rebelliousness. In China, they don't take issue with the views of marriage, but do take issue with the charitable aspects and demands of Christianity. At times in history Husbands didn't love their wives, at other times, wives didn't obey their husbands. There is no historical point in time or person other than Jesus where this has been practiced properly. In fact, men cannot be perfect like Jesus is, but it's what's expected of them. And this is all from the fall:
Genesis 3:16
I don't have an issue with this. Far better than the alternative - being a slave to Satan.
It definitely does matter.
A loving husband doesn't control and subjugate his wife. Your sentence here doesn't make any sense at all.
The Bible doesn't tell men to control and subjugate their wives. It tells them to love (agapos) them, lead them, and guide them.