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Thank you. It's always unfortunate when people try to logic people out of positions that didn't logic themselves into. I used to do things like that, but it'd probably be riskier to try now with my current outward identity. Even if I get them to listen to a brown woman, I'm also trans and bi which could easily shut them out if I conceal it, and would make me even harder to approach if I don't. I hope others can do it for me.
You're entirely right about the importance of context. I grew up the opposite of conservative, yet I've learned very similar lessons. When you're on relatively equal footing with shared goals, most can become your friend. When there are power dynamics and the perception of a zero sum game, most can become your enemy. I've long been a person who seeks out those who are most opposed to my way of thinking, and I've never regretted being friendly with and understanding those people.
At the same time, getting into such neutral conditions is harder than ever for me, as the barriers get put up long before I show up. It's not actual conversations that hold me back, but getting there in the first place. Whenever I come across a conservative I can approach, I always make sure to talk with them.