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Its really not tho. Playing music in public is a common practice that can encourage people to socialize. Are there anti social ways to do it? Sure, but there's nothing wrong with brining a little culture onto an otherwise bland and isolating experience.
I think its kinda weird that some people want to enforce silence on the bus, but I'm guessing that's a cultural difference.
hell yeah, auditory assault on all commuters! who fucking cares if they may have a disability or condition that makes it physically painful for them to listen to me blasting my garbage at full volume because i am to lazy to put on headphones. they are just npcs in MY world and anyways, only losers take public transport so they deserve it! If they don't want to hear it they should just stop being poor and buy a car!
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I don't think you want to hear what I'm trying to say. Oh well. Have a nice day.
I'd like to hear more about what sort of cultural background you're coming from, what you think are prosocial vs antisocial ways of playing music in public, and how public music can be squared with different music preferences and sound hypersensitivity and things like that.
Also, not that it actually is my place to say, but if I were in your shoes I don't think I would've wished them a nice day.
I mean, they could use one. They're clearly not doing well.
I'm Salvadoran-American, I grew up in the diaspora with a bunch of immigrant families from all over latino america and later on the Texas/Mexico border.
Most everywhere I've lived, people just play music on speakers. Whenever they're at. Work, bus, &c. They're usually familiar jams that you might hear at a party or in a bar. Cumbia, Corridas, Bachata, sometimes hip hop. Its part of being alive to me I guess.
That said, its pretty anti social to do things like watch porn with speakers on the bus or just watch tiktok or listen to noise. Even having competing tracks together is just not a good vibe.
To me its like, do i want to listen to the engine roar and loud AC or do I want to listen to this random guys bachata playlist? I'm gonna pick bachata every time because the alternative isnt silence, its just plain noise. In cases like this, playing music makes the ride nicer and I might actually be inclined to talk to someone instead of trying to tune out the noise for the duration of my commute. Same goes for house parties, it makes my night hearing familiar cumbia songs and latino pop. Reminds me of my childhood.
I would hope that people with sensitivity to sound aren't raw dogging public transit. Even if everyone was individually quiet that sounds like a sensory nightmare, at least for the kind of transit I'm familiar with.
I do think there's a big cultural component. Its not like latinos are any less prone to being sensitive than anyone else. You just grow up around a certain way of life and it becomes cozy.
It’s pretty objectively inconsiderate of others to make unnecessary noise like that on public transit or even too loud for personal use in public spaces.
I can’t say I understand where you’re coming from because I don’t have that shared cultural experience.
What happens when you don’t like the music someone’s playing? Or you want to watch a video on your phone or enjoy a audiobook with earbuds? Do you just blast your own even louder? Do the people that don’t enjoy it really not exist or are they just threatened with violence until they start “enjoying” the culture?
I mean I’ve seen it all around the world, I understand to that extent that some cultures normalize it. But I see it in the same way cultures normalize behaviors that are not good for subsets of the population. Americans culturally hate science, intelligence, and empathy. Japanese culturally hate not blending in and doing your duty. Etc etc. just because something is normal doesn’t change that it is harmful.
"Inconsiderate" is in the eye of the beholder, it isn't objective at all. Maybe some spaces need a dialogue to go down to redefine the social contract. I can accept that.
I have a personal fondness for a really loud vibe that you many not like. Which may even be harmful to you. If anyone on a specific train or bus is specifically being harmed tho, I would support turning the music down or off! I'm not a complete asshole, I was just raised on loud music.