I am a lonely man and I have to say, the more of this shit I see the more I think we're mostly to blame. Yeah sure were ground down by capitalism, but past men ground down by capitalism formed unions and shot Pinkertons and shit.

[–] BabyTurtles@hexbear.net 21 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Hey, it sucks to be lonely. I was being kinda facetious and edgy about certain men who are just bad, unconscientious, and make the world a worse place for everyone. You can be lonely and still a good person, and a good person and still be lonely. Making genuine connections is difficult, and it takes a lot of effort and energy.

Don't beat yourself up about it personally. You'll find right people to be in your life, people who hold the same values as you, people who genuinely care about you and aren't just interested in what you do for them.

You don't have to save the world, just do your best to take care of the people in your life. Every good act matter no matter how small.

meow-hug

[–] ConcreteHalloween@hexbear.net 21 points 4 weeks ago

Honesty as I've gotten older I've found I've become more and more introverted to the point I almost don't mind the loneliness anymore. Sure there's some day I wish I had a partner but also, being around other people can be a bit of a hassle for me, I could just read a book or watch a movie or go for a bike ride.

So yeah I'm fine. But every day I lose sympathy for these Groyper fucks who whine they don't have a GF and then post Nazi memes.

[–] Le_Wokisme@hexbear.net 6 points 4 weeks ago

there's no in group though.