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Without getting too specific: there are some completely harmless kinks between consenting adults that I still want to kink shame.
Holding hands π€’
Those sick fucks...
I feel like kinks ought to be private anyway. Sharing them feels intimate in a way that is a violation of shared civil spaces. What people do in private doesn't bother me in the slightest, but if your kink requires making me uncomfortable by telling me what you're into, I have every right to decline to be a part of your sexual gratification.
To be clear, I'm not talking about LGBTQ+ communities or people who like to wear revealing clothing. That's not a kink. But if you're dressed like a puppy and being led around on a leash with a visible erection, then you should be a little bit ashamed for involving me without my consent. There are private spaces for private conversations and private activities. I should be able to ride the bus without getting jizzed on by a masturbating homeless man.
Speaking of kinks: wanting to hurt people's feelings for no other reason than to your own enjoyment would be labeled as sadism.
Furries. It's weird to me that they wear their fetish outwardly.
Wearing a fursuit, if it was ever sexual, hasn't been that way in a long, long, long time.
Uh huh
Ah come on, ya gotta tell us.