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My job has made me so used to calling people "sir" or "ma'am", but wtf to I say to an NB?

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[–] Moss@hexbear.net 19 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Honestly the only thing I can imagine liking in a formal setting is comrade. Mx has always looked and sounded awkward to me. I don't like referring to people formally in general because I think it's too impersonal, but if there is a time when it's appropriate I would prefer comrade.

Obviously that will not manifest in Western society for a long time

[–] ConcreteHalloween@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

I like to shorten it to tovvie

[–] ConcreteHalloween@hexbear.net 7 points 2 weeks ago

Aww that's cute, I wish I had a GF to call that.