I'm very disappointed in poem_for_your_sprog for almost understanding this point, and then immediately making the same mistake she was calling out
'I have to sort my books!' she cried,
With self-indulgent glee;
With senseless, ~~narcissistic~~ pride:
'I'm just so OCD!'
'How random, guys!' I smiled and said,
Then left without a peep -
And washed my hands until they bled,
And cried myself to sleep.
English is a living language. If enough people take narcissistic to mean self-absorbed that's what it means, and the general population is not queerphobic for using it that way.
That's fucking gay.
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Sorry for using the word that way, but I remember growing up and hearing other kids say that like it meant nothing. Just like you. I never liked hearing that language, but I didn't realise how distasteful it was until I got a bit older and realised I was gay.I hope we as a society have grown beyond such callous cruelty, but people like you remind me that making others feel empathy is a never ending battle.