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I got fired for filing a discrimination lawsuit against my employer for barring me from wearing the kilt I'd worn at least 2-3 times per week for two years. The banning was because they decided it was not "professional attire", but all the yoga pants, miniskirts, and sleeveless dresses are just fine.
There's a lot more to the story including a trip to mental health urgent care and the actual firing call happening while I was on FMLA.
I mean, wear what you want by all means, but as a Scot who's worn a kilt a handful of times at very formal occasions it seems pretty odd to wear it on the daily. To each their own, of course, but it is a bit unusual. What made you decide to push ahead with this, knowing that your work wasn't keen?
I'd been wearing it to work for 2 years prior to this. I also worked at the same company over 10 years ago in a department with a strictrr dress code and wore it for 3+ years in that role.
The meeting about the kilt happened the day before the c-suite were coming to visit the office from out of town, which I suspect was the real reason for it. Last time executives came visiting I brought up pay equity and raised the matter of inflation, COL pay adjustments, and merit raises when they got done telling us how well the company was doing and that our te am had a direct effect on boosting stock value. I got pulled into a meeting first thing next day to tell me I could not discuss salary with fellow employees, which is a violation of labor law and company policy. My ethics complaint about that was swept under the rug and when I cpntacted the NLRB (national labor relations board) to report the violation of the law the respondent basically said they could file it but the odds of the complaint going anywhere vs a company this size was almost zero.
Yay USA!
What is FMLA?
Family Medical Leave Act. Let's you leave work and get paid for a period of time (I believe at a reduced rate) if a family member is having medical issues.
Almost always it's unpaid. Any paid leave you have is accrued separate from FMLA leave. The only thing it guarantees is you'll have a job when you get back from any number of protected leave reasons.
Ok. Thanks.
It's a thing USians can envoke, to not come in to work, when they can't even. Edit: spelling