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Why does every married man I talk to about marriage benefits seem to feel that staying single is better? (sh.itjust.works)

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[–] skankhunt42@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yep, I'm a Linux Sysadmin/DevOps and married a developer. Your experience is the same as mine as all my friends are IT also.

We don't play games but we do fun shit together. I self host everything and she adds on to it. Almost all our smart home logic is hers. Aside from tech we are completely different people too so a lot of the time is spent doing our own thing happily together in the same room.

[–] wildbus8979@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago

We're both devs, but I'm the ops also and the one with 25 years of *nix experience. She loves the smart home setup (I started back on X10!) but I can't convince her for shit to contribute and it does bother me. And yeah I've communicated that, the logic/automations is also what I would love to offload.

In an otherwise happy marriage is definitely a pet peeve of mine.