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Just came up with my father again.
He blames me that mother forgot her phone's and Google password because I recommended against it being a word.
I mentioned encryption, "not necessary unless you're doing something illegal".
When mentioning lack of privacy with targeted advertisements, he said that he actually really likes them, because he bought a couple of things he wanted for years.

I don't really have good arguments.

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[–] Libb@piefed.social 57 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

If I was to answer that type of argument, I would consider those:

  • why do you close the door of the bathroom when you use it?
  • Can I watch you fuck?
  • Show me your last income declaration
  • Give me your credit card
  • Why do you wear clothing?
  • Why do you lock the door of the house?

but I tend to ignore people using the "I have nothing to hide" argument

[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I just be direct.

The people making this argument have already built an implicit stage in their mind where they're talking about when authority is trying to investigate you for being "one of the bad ones."

They're not "counting" personal privacy in this context like modesty and personal private space.

I just say "Because when the long arc of history swings the other way like it has for thousands of years, do you want your scary, blue-haired antifa boogymen to have the power to investigate you and your personal life and habits?"

If it's a male conservative, you can have great success with "So if someone says they need to check your hard drive for every image and video you've ever looked at, you're fine with that? I know a guy who can immediately restore every file you've ever deleted."

Sometimes they turn white.

[–] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Also: why does your wife, mom, daughter close the bathroom door? Do you watch your mom or daughter fuck?

That persons opinion of privacy would affect other people too.