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Damn I thought it was a done deal, I even had chats with the folks at the research institute who would've offered the funding, and they were very optimistic. I was pretty much already expecting the next 4 years of my life to be done doing that.

Feeling kind of neutral about it tho. Maybe emotions will come later.

And this is the university where I am friends with a tenured professor, who was also pushing my application forward. If I apply to other places i'm certainly not gonna have that for any other applications. I don't even know what other programs to apply to.

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that'll probably do it, like signalling you're into that arrangement but also expressing some interest in whatever the well funded research subject is too. like demonstrating a curiosity about other projects ongoing, how the investigation is broadly designed and having the capacity/will to engage with it intellectually for your own enrichment.

i just assumed that's how everyone would be in graduate school, just a bunch of curious dorks doing the optional reading. but apparently demand exceeds supply frequently.